Is it normal to want to "do it" in that place?
My grand daughter told me about this site a few days ago. I don't know who else to turn to, so I decided to give this a try. My husband and I will be celebrating our 40th anniversary in a few weeks. We each wanted to do something special to commemorate this landmark in our wonderful relationship. I asked him what he would like to do, and he disclosed to me his desire to have anal sex. He explained that it's always been a fantasy of his, but he was always too afraid to ask. This revelation completely shocked me. I do not understand why someone would desire to perform such an act. It seems completely filthy to me. The fact that he'd been hiding this from me for so many years worries me as well. Why would a normal man really want to do this? It seems like something out of a smut film. I tried to search the internet for more information on this act, but all I find is more filth. I don't know who else to ask, as I'm afraid to go to my friends. I've thought of speaking to our children, but it's just too embarrassing. Even the thought of disclosing my fears to our Reverend brings about a feeling of intense shame. Is this something that men really do, or is this an act mostly practiced by drug addicts, fast women and homosexuals? What should I do? I'm really worried about him.