Well it's been getting a bit boring but I figure that's normal... I was actually talking to another guy while i was in the same room with him, but he was too wrapped up on the ps3 to notice..
While it's normal for long-term relationships to be less exciting than new ones, it's not really normal for relationships to be "boring". If that's the case then I figure your flirting is really because your current relationship is not exciting enough. Perhaps your boyfriend doesn't pay enough attention to you or make you feel special enough because he takes your relationship for granted, and flirting with other people gives you that rush and excitement that's missing.
It doesn't seem like something that makes a lot of sense at first but starting new relationships can be an addicting feeling. These people want you and are willing to pursue you--they remind you that you are attractive. Perhaps that's not something you can say about your boyfriend.
I did like the flirting, the attention was fun, but I didn't want to go further with the guys who I was flirting with.. So I guess that's like a tease right? But I already stopped that, hopefully I won't get back to it either.
All I want is a threesome, like we were having sex the other night and I don't want to get into details... but I love the idea of giving someone oral while someones fucking me.. in the ass... I'm sorry I didn't know how else to say that...
Is it normal to want to cheat and then completely chicken out?
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Maybe you want attention from other guys... and feel like experimenting...
Why not just take a break from each other, and reflect on what it is that you really need.
I doubt wanting to have sex with others guys is the only reason why you feel these urges. Do you feel trapped and bored in this relationship?
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Well it's been getting a bit boring but I figure that's normal... I was actually talking to another guy while i was in the same room with him, but he was too wrapped up on the ps3 to notice..
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While it's normal for long-term relationships to be less exciting than new ones, it's not really normal for relationships to be "boring". If that's the case then I figure your flirting is really because your current relationship is not exciting enough. Perhaps your boyfriend doesn't pay enough attention to you or make you feel special enough because he takes your relationship for granted, and flirting with other people gives you that rush and excitement that's missing.
It doesn't seem like something that makes a lot of sense at first but starting new relationships can be an addicting feeling. These people want you and are willing to pursue you--they remind you that you are attractive. Perhaps that's not something you can say about your boyfriend.
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I did like the flirting, the attention was fun, but I didn't want to go further with the guys who I was flirting with.. So I guess that's like a tease right? But I already stopped that, hopefully I won't get back to it either.
All I want is a threesome, like we were having sex the other night and I don't want to get into details... but I love the idea of giving someone oral while someones fucking me.. in the ass... I'm sorry I didn't know how else to say that...