Well, I think it's a random urge... I've flirted with a few of friends and couple random people, then I stop all of a sudden and apologize to my friends. Maybe my heads messing up? I just can't think of a reason and I'm trying to get it under control..
That's really strange. I think it's an impulse problem, you should probably look up information on how to get that under control. Maybe you feel "settled" with your boyfriend and are unconsciously looking for excitement and attention when you flirt with other people. Or maybe now that you have a boyfriend you realize that you want to have the freedom to do whatever you want with other people. If you really can't control yourself, then monogamy is not for you--and that's okay, but you shouldn't be hurting someone by doing this without his knowledge or acceptance.
I think it's the excitement... I haven't flirted at all since i posted this, i think i probably felt ashamed announcing it but i really do just want a threesome and he says he gets a bit turned on thinking of someone fucking me but it's hard for him to share me..
Is it normal to want to cheat and then completely chicken out?
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What is it that makes you want to cheat? Just a random urge or is it something else?
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Well, I think it's a random urge... I've flirted with a few of friends and couple random people, then I stop all of a sudden and apologize to my friends. Maybe my heads messing up? I just can't think of a reason and I'm trying to get it under control..
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That's really strange. I think it's an impulse problem, you should probably look up information on how to get that under control. Maybe you feel "settled" with your boyfriend and are unconsciously looking for excitement and attention when you flirt with other people. Or maybe now that you have a boyfriend you realize that you want to have the freedom to do whatever you want with other people. If you really can't control yourself, then monogamy is not for you--and that's okay, but you shouldn't be hurting someone by doing this without his knowledge or acceptance.
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I think it's the excitement... I haven't flirted at all since i posted this, i think i probably felt ashamed announcing it but i really do just want a threesome and he says he gets a bit turned on thinking of someone fucking me but it's hard for him to share me..
Thank you StarTeddy! :)