Talk to your boyfriend about your feelings of unsatisfaction with the sex you two are having. There are ways besides cheating to increase excitement. However, if you can't think of anything I strongly urge you to dump your boyfriend. It will hurt him less than cheating. Don't selfishly hold on to him at the expense of his feelings.
I can try to push a little more at a threesome... I was hoping I'm just really horny for a while, like how dogs go on heat? I know it's a bad comparison.... But I only recently started being this way that's why...
More sex? Then keep having sex with your bf til your satisfied.
Better sex? Then show him. Tell him.
Emotional closeness? Throw out every screen in your immediate environment, and talk.
I don't know. Only you really know what it is you need.
Only you know what you're missing.
If you're missing other guys, then monogamy is not your thing. And that might be something you (and your guys) might need to accept.
No, I'm not in London. & I did figure it out... I just want a threesome. I feel like such a slut for wanting that. But I won't do it unless my boyfriend lets me. lol I have kept my urges under control a lot better also!
Is it normal to want to cheat and then completely chicken out?
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Talk to your boyfriend about your feelings of unsatisfaction with the sex you two are having. There are ways besides cheating to increase excitement. However, if you can't think of anything I strongly urge you to dump your boyfriend. It will hurt him less than cheating. Don't selfishly hold on to him at the expense of his feelings.
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I can try to push a little more at a threesome... I was hoping I'm just really horny for a while, like how dogs go on heat? I know it's a bad comparison.... But I only recently started being this way that's why...
Forget talking. Really.
I say, break up.
Then go find a guy you like. Maybe even test run a few guys.
Settle for one that does the job properly.
And for God's sake, stop trying to cheat already.
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It's not like I'm with my boyfriend just for sex, I do like him a lot... I'm just confused as to why I would be curious about other guys. :/
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Baby, because he's not enough.
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But, how do I make it enough?
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Question is, what do you really need?
More sex? Then keep having sex with your bf til your satisfied.
Better sex? Then show him. Tell him.
Emotional closeness? Throw out every screen in your immediate environment, and talk.
I don't know. Only you really know what it is you need.
Only you know what you're missing.
If you're missing other guys, then monogamy is not your thing. And that might be something you (and your guys) might need to accept.
Are you in London?
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No, I'm not in London. & I did figure it out... I just want a threesome. I feel like such a slut for wanting that. But I won't do it unless my boyfriend lets me. lol I have kept my urges under control a lot better also!