Is it normal to want to cheat?

Is it normal to be in a relationship and still feel the need to cheat? I've been going out with this guy for about a year. He's in the middle of a divorce and has a lot going on. When we first started going out, he told me he loved me all of the time, and really seemed to be into our relationship. Now he's a little bit distant, and has been moody here and there. We still go out and have great sex, but it's not the same. I really enjoy being with him, but I'm not sure where this relationship is going. So, while all of this is going on, my ex and I have been hooking up. I feel as though I am retalliating and getting back because my feelings are hurt.

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Based on 80 votes (36 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • randomjelly

    So do you accept money for your dirty hooker ways or are you doing it for free?

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  • Katywompus

    Don't cheat! Just break up with him.

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  • Wow your disgusting. How about asking him what's goingnon with him instead of cheating?? And if he continued to act distant, you could just break up with him and find someone else? How is cheating gonna solve your problem? Dumbass

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  • London81

    The married guy is using you for sex and is cheating on his wife. Dump him and be free to do what you want with the ex.

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  • SuperHiro

    You're asking if it's normal, that your boyfriend is acting different so you go and hang out with your ex? Why would you spend more time with your ex if your boyfriend seems distant? I feel like that means you should spend more time with him not try to screw him over...

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  • Naut

    Don't be with the divorced guy. You'll only hurt him further, especially since his perspective on life and women will already be shitty.

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  • smileygirl

    I know...he is the one who truly loves me..but he has issues.....

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  • soup

    You should get back with your ex!

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