His suicidal attempts are his problem, they shouldn't become yours. Especially not after a relationship of a mere three weeks. Don't stay with someone because you feel bad for him.
I know it sucks to leave him like that, and you're very tempted to feel guilty, but he should see a professional about his suicidal tendencies. There's nothing you can do to help him.
I've got to agree with this. I started typing up my own reply, but this pretty much echoes what I was about to say.
I've been in a similar situation (I'm a bisexual male), although it lasted 2 years and unfolded slowly during that time. I can tell you one thing: Even if it's very hard, you DO NOT want to be involved with people like that -- the only person who can change their ways is them, usually with professional help to guide them.
From what it sounds like, his vision of the next few months involves slowly eating up your life, destroying your friendships and bringing him down with you in the process. Don't fall for it, and under no circumstances allow him chances to manipulate you -- a lot of people are extremely good at it, and when you're messed up, you tend to use it for evil, haha.
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His suicidal attempts are his problem, they shouldn't become yours. Especially not after a relationship of a mere three weeks. Don't stay with someone because you feel bad for him.
I know it sucks to leave him like that, and you're very tempted to feel guilty, but he should see a professional about his suicidal tendencies. There's nothing you can do to help him.
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I've got to agree with this. I started typing up my own reply, but this pretty much echoes what I was about to say.
I've been in a similar situation (I'm a bisexual male), although it lasted 2 years and unfolded slowly during that time. I can tell you one thing: Even if it's very hard, you DO NOT want to be involved with people like that -- the only person who can change their ways is them, usually with professional help to guide them.
From what it sounds like, his vision of the next few months involves slowly eating up your life, destroying your friendships and bringing him down with you in the process. Don't fall for it, and under no circumstances allow him chances to manipulate you -- a lot of people are extremely good at it, and when you're messed up, you tend to use it for evil, haha.
Plenty of fish in the sea (even gay ones) :)