Is it normal to want to beat ever body up that ever pissed me off?

I am really mad almost all of the time. I am a smaller guy compared to everyone else. I feel as though I have to prove that I am just as strong if not stronger than the bigger guys. My dad isn't around. And when we do talk, all he does is yell. II have heard that I'm becoming more and more like him. He is a drunk who doesn't give the time of day to talk to his only son.

Is It Normal?
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  • If I were a bigger asshole, I'd say you have a Napoleon complex.

    Don't be an idiot. Violence is an idiot's game. Violence is for people who are not intelligent enough to solve problems with brain power, and for people who need to defend themselves against said idiots. Somebody just pissing you off is not a good reason, in fact, it makes you worse than them.

    It's normal, but you're better off not even thinking about it. Find a niche in your life in which you will be valued. May not happen for years but hey, you're no better than the rest of us and for most of us, finding your place is something that takes most of us a while.

    Think Back to the Future, when George McFly is having Biff polish his BMW. It gives little guys inspiration.

    Welcome to the human condition.

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  • My dad is the same way... Meditation helps try some peaceful music just try it!

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  • That is called Napoleon syndrome or short man syndrome.

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  • small man syndrome

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  • You should talk to a therapist about this.

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  • I often feel the same, but I don't like to feel that way because remaining bitter and angry about the past is basically letting the mean people win. I still don't like the ones who have dumped me, insulted me, etc. but I don't obsess about it. There's hope that the people who intentionally hurt others will open their eyes someday.

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  • You sound insecure about your height and like you have anger issues. It's not normal to be so consistently angry.

    You want to hurt the people that pissed you off not because they pissed you off, but because they're the ones you can justify beating up. You just want to beat someone up. Because you're angry, and because that would make you feel powerful (if you actually 'won' the fight of course) when otherwise you feel weak.

    Your own description of your father is very negative, so the idea of becoming more and more like him must hurt - it can't be a pleasant thought. You know this. How you are is entirely in your control; don't end up like your father.

    Easier said than done, of course. First things first, you need some help to extend that short temper of yours. Therapy perhaps? Self-help techniques? You need to learn to get over your height insecurity and this sense of inferiority you have, this idea that you have to prove your strength to people or they'll think less of you.

    If you really don't want to end up an angry, unloved and bitter individual, do something about it :)

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  • Not normal.

    Also- U mad? I dunno, I didn't read your thread.

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  • I know how you feel bro. I was an abused kid. I was mostly abused by my mom but their was this other guy who was friends with my aunts boyfriend. He used to do small things to hurt me so no1 would see. Everytime i told people they didnt believe me.

    As a kid i felt helpless. Not only was my mom abusive but i was a misfit at school, and being bullied by sum1 who was friends with the family and like 20 yrs older than me. I felt weak.

    Now that im older i wish i could beat the fuck out of all the people that ever hurt me. All the bullies, the family members that hit me, and the so called friends of the family. It sucks, but its something you have to live with. Dont let your anger control you.

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  • Yuck.. human nature is so destructive. There are many alternatives to make your anger subside. Besides how does beating one up, prove anything other than primitive dominance? Think about how ridiculous it is. The human brain is capable of so much more. I gave up on society because society encourages stupid. So primitive to use violence as an answer. Wit is more powerful than muscle.
    Beep boop boop bop boop bop

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  • Hunt them down before it's too late
    Now is the time to make the most of their pain
    They deserve it for all that they have ruined for you
    Don't think or say anything
    Don't hold back, you'll regret this night
    It's all over
    Don't make the same mistake twice
    Finish them now
    Push them down
    Face first to the ground
    They deserve it for all they have done to you

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  • You don't have anything to prove to anyone! There's this book that I recommend reading, it'll really change your mind on how stature really has nothing to do with life, and that it's really a person's character that decides everything. The book is called "A Prayer for Owen Meany" by John Irving. It's a long book but you'll be captured by the story. Strive not to be like your father, instead be your own person. Learn to aspect yourself for who you are and not judge others just because they're bigger than you.

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  • It is pretty normal, dont let ure feelings get out of hand though that might get u in trouble !

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  • Normal. Bullies should be shot.

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