Is it normal to want to be this slutty?

I'm 17 years old, and I love sex. Not normal sex, but rough, demeaning sex. I wanna get gang banged, and I have rape fantasies. I've only ever been with two men, so I've never had these experiences. I really want to be gang banged, but I'm a bit scared. I don't know if tots weird to want to get fucked so much, and I can't share this with anyone cause they will judge me. I don't know what to do, im bi, and I want to have sex all the time. I don't know if I'll ever find a man to satisfy me. :/

Is It Normal?
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  • Try with known people.. slowly

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  • Gods I love honesty. Read "The Ethical Slut". There is nothing absolutely nothing abnormal about your desire. And yes a gay guy is about to say this but... Try a 3 some MMF. There is a reason why girls can have multiple O's. Be causal about it and just ask some friends. Don't feel the need to get tied down in a relationship. FWB is so much more fun.

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  • Stay safe, and practice fantasies with people you trust. You don't have to be in a relationship with someone to trust them, but it's also best not to enact fantasies that are potentially dangerous with complete strangers. It'll be easier to have sex more frequently and with more people as you get older, because you will be able to meet people in adult settings and fewer people will have hang-ups about you being "too young".

    Casual sex and kinky sex can be fun, and a lot of people enjoy them. A high sex drive is normal and not weird. I'd go as far as to say it's healthy, because it means you're not repressed.

    These feelings may change over time, or they may stay the same. You meet many people in your life, and you might be able to find a partner who can satisfy all or enough of your desires (or, a partner who you can have an open relationship with). Alternatively, sex may become less important in your relationship choices as you amass a greater range of sexual experiences, and you will find yourself more easily satisfied by one person. Just take it as it comes.

    Educate yourself about sex. Learn about how to practice sex safely, with regards to your emotional health and your physical health. Learn about your biology, and male biology. The more you know about sex in terms of sociology, biology and psychology, the more easily you can navigate your desires and fantasies confidently without feeling embarrassed about them or judged for them.

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