Is it normal to want to be the person you have a crush on?

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First of all, I'm a girl who is attracted to guys. I've noticed that when I have a crush on someone, not only am I infatuated with them in the traditional sense, but I also desire to actually BE that person. This only seems to happen with crushes on fictional characters (which I guess is another issue) not with crushes on real guys.

So I guess that leads to yet another issue - I'm attracted to males but often imagine myself to be or wish I were male.

Is It Normal?
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  • factoria
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm bisexual, and I often feel this way. Oftentimes when I'm attracted to a man, I feel like I want to be a man myself, I guess because I see the particular man/being masculine as so attractive. And the same for a woman I'm attracted to, I want to be female/feminine.

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  • randomass
    11 years ago | pl

    I once fell in love with David Sylvian, although at the time I thought he was someone else. I thought he was my age. I thought that online I was talking to someone who looked that gorgeous.

    After I found out it was David Sylvian and not some loser online, I loosened up... and decided that I wanted to look like him now. I cut my hair just like him and have never regretted it (and I'm a girl).

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  • TheSlipperyPig
    11 years ago | pl

    i would love the experience to give myself a blowjob.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    its normal i think so cause im in the same boat...i have a crush on my bestfriend and i wanna be him hes soo hot D: lol

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    13 years ago | pl

    I think it would be fun to be male. Sometimes I think I shoulda been one because I can relate to them more lol

    But back to you...umm that's a little out of the ordinary but I'm sure there's people who are like this.
    I have a FULL-ON girl-crush on hayley williams & I would also like to be her ha so I can kinda relate.

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  • waterfalls02
    13 years ago | pl

    You probably think you are too good to be so you want to experience yourself from a different view, not too much normal but whatever

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago | pl

      sorry, waterfalls, but i'm not quite sure what you're saying :-/

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