Is it normal to want to be married at 19 n have kids? (if your a male)

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Ohkay i'm 19 yrs of age and wifey and i want to get married and try working on having a kid and has been together for exactly 2 yrs.

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Based on 47 votes (24 yes)
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  • MiKeY_G
    13 years ago

    Chill out and enjoy your years while your young and while it's just you to.

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  • Fatoosha
    13 years ago

    Go to collage first .
    Life is not easy

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    I think it's normal but not seen so much. U guys should wait until u r financially stable and ready and mature enough for children

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Curious to know why

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  • jamesmitchell29486
    13 years ago

    if you are out of the house and living on your own and you have been dating for a year or more and she has stayed at your place for a week at a time or longer meaning you can cohabitate comfortably i would say you should get married and if you are financially stable enough to afford it have a kid after married and living together for at least a year then see how you like being parents and don't have another kid till the first one(s) are at least 5 so he/she/they can help take care of the new one.

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  • a_blonde_paradox
    13 years ago

    If you aren't financially stable now, you will have a hard time raising a kid at 19, esp if you aren't in college yet or have a really good paying job. This is from experience. Get yourself financially stable first, then worry about a kid.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    No need to get married right now. Why not wait til youre a little older. Your life changes alot during your twenties, say you want to wait til you are making a good wage tp marry and start a family

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago

    physically you mean geek god.
    and if your happy go for it but you should wait it out. finish college get a degree buy a house get financially situated and have a baby at the right time.
    but if you truly want to have one have one. cause i did. and shit i can't pay for shit.
    please wait don't make the mistake that i did. i can't pay for anything and i cry myself to sleep every night
    because i can't support her by myself
    it's harder than you think.
    even with two people together like you two get married first and get a house and save money
    wait it out.

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  • geek_god_101
    13 years ago

    If the both of you are financially stable and able to afford having kids, that's fine but if you can't, I would just get married and wait to be able to be fiscally stable before having children.

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  • HulaHoop
    13 years ago

    if this is where you are both happy, then why not?

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