The time you spend wondering if he'll change (and most men don't), is time you could be spending with someone that has similar needs/goals as yourself. Some things you can compromise on (furniture, the color of your dishes). BIG THINGS like kids and marriage you cannot compromise on. He told you up front how he feels about kids and marriage and these are BIG issues. This is not aligned with what you want. Stop being afraid of losing him, and realize that you need to find someone that is aligned with the major issues. Break up now, before wasting more time...move on...there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Is it normal to want to be married??
← View full post
The time you spend wondering if he'll change (and most men don't), is time you could be spending with someone that has similar needs/goals as yourself. Some things you can compromise on (furniture, the color of your dishes). BIG THINGS like kids and marriage you cannot compromise on. He told you up front how he feels about kids and marriage and these are BIG issues. This is not aligned with what you want. Stop being afraid of losing him, and realize that you need to find someone that is aligned with the major issues. Break up now, before wasting more time...move on...there are plenty of fish in the sea.