i have a diferent view than everyone else ... I doubt your whole relationship boils down to those few things you mentioned in your post, I think you love him and he loves you ... but your not very loyal and he doesnt know how to handle that .... if he's raised like many guys are ,, then if a girl cheets or flirts around or what ever they get jealous , anger issues ... its part of nature .... the reason i think this way is becuase during all this you found time to have sex with some other guy... thats the thing thats not normal ... and the truth is you deserved a punch in the face ,,, cheeting on a guy is WAY worse than a punch in the face ... its a scar that will last his whole life and shape every fork in the road for him .... if you love him , then love him , be deeply loyal , never cheet or think of it, years will go by and your both wounds will fade ... but love is something very hard to find .... worth fighting for ! ...... if freedom is worth dieing and killing for, then love is worth MUCH MORE! .... you were right to pick his side and not your friends ... friends are mostly worthless in our life ,, most all are stranger and get lost over time .... life is eternal ,, you both have lots of growing to do ... love is the soil we grow best in so talk with him in depth , make deep comitments to eachother and keep true to them.
Is it normal to want to be in an abusive relationship
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i have a diferent view than everyone else ... I doubt your whole relationship boils down to those few things you mentioned in your post, I think you love him and he loves you ... but your not very loyal and he doesnt know how to handle that .... if he's raised like many guys are ,, then if a girl cheets or flirts around or what ever they get jealous , anger issues ... its part of nature .... the reason i think this way is becuase during all this you found time to have sex with some other guy... thats the thing thats not normal ... and the truth is you deserved a punch in the face ,,, cheeting on a guy is WAY worse than a punch in the face ... its a scar that will last his whole life and shape every fork in the road for him .... if you love him , then love him , be deeply loyal , never cheet or think of it, years will go by and your both wounds will fade ... but love is something very hard to find .... worth fighting for ! ...... if freedom is worth dieing and killing for, then love is worth MUCH MORE! .... you were right to pick his side and not your friends ... friends are mostly worthless in our life ,, most all are stranger and get lost over time .... life is eternal ,, you both have lots of growing to do ... love is the soil we grow best in so talk with him in depth , make deep comitments to eachother and keep true to them.