Is it normal to want to be gay?

Ok ever since i was little i always found gay men to be very attractive,cute, and adorable. One problem is that im a female and im uber comfortable with being a female. Some times i think about having kids and hoping that one will turn out to be gay or thinking about that whole reincarnation thing and how my next reincarnation will be a gay person. Is this a normal thing or am i just weird???

Is It Normal?
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  • Idk. But I could never be gay. I dislike most women. Haha.

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  • There seems to be a lot of women in to homosexual male activity these days, especially with that thing "Yaoi" a user above mentioned.

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    • i always thiught yaoi was something sexual but not in this way... It sounds so wrong but so right (for me that is).

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      • Someone made a yaoi story of me and Shuggy, apparently. >_>

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        • I see, well then ._.

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          • Weird, I know. :|

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      • Aha. I see. ;P

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  • Straight people have it so much easier in this day and age. Gay people still get murdered for their sexuality, across the world its illegal to be gay.
    If you're straight, embrace it, you cant turn gay and you cant force your kids to be gay (That's if you have them)

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  • I'm going to say normal. Some of my coworkers who are fans of yaoi sometimes say something similar to what you're saying.

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  • Are you sure? Gays are subject to face stigma and discrimination. Why would any one want to choose that for themselves or their kids? Anyway, if your kids are gay, it's either because they could be questioning/experimenting or because they were born that way. *cue song* You can't make people become a certain sexuality. If your children don't end up being gay, I hope that you will still love and support them.

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    • I would love my kids no matter what they are. This is more of a 'I hope my kids get the genes or traits or whatever biological stuff they need (from me and my future husband) to become gay' kinda thing... Its hard to explain it without sounding like im gonna force it and shun them if yheyre not

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  • Until you said that maybe you would like your kids to be gay, I followed what you were saying. However, if you really feel this way, you probably shouldn't have kids. You don't want them to want what you want for yourself, because if they truly don't want that or they find out that only you wanted it for them, they will reject it and most likely you as well.

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    • I would never force my kids to be someone they're not (especially gay). Nothing would change if they turn out to be straight... Im not sure where im going with this...

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    • I don't see what's wrong with wanting to have gay kids, as long as you don't force them into a role.

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