When I was 19 years old 25 to 28 was old as far as I was concerned. I did date one 28 year old when I was 19, but he was a bass player in a band, and a really nice guy though.
Honestly, all the talk about much older domineering men and little, girly, submissive much younger women turns my stomach. It's very gross, and unnatural for me. If anything now that I'm 48 most of the guys who hit on me are usually much younger, and I'm fine with that, but I don't ever take them up on their offers. I was shopping with my mother yesterday, and someone thought I was in my 30's which kinda blew me away.
I will honestly never understand the crap with daddy issues stuff.
Well, it's not like the perverts who hit on me when I was much younger were lining up to try to understand and empathize with why I was so horrified and disgusted with them sexually harassing me. Now that I'm in my forties forty-somethings don't make me uncomfortable, because they're my age, and besides the guys who talk to me are mostly younger so I have virtually no woforty... knock on wood.
I know, I mean I don't know. But it sounds and I mean not just from this post, but like you've had horrendous luck with men, who have caused you immeasurable pain.
And I know you don't hate all men or even respectful people with fetishes, but our experiences have been so vastly different that I feel like you carry a bias that isn't true.
That being hypersexual, or sexually dominating men have some agenda to hurt women.
I can tell you that in domination scenarios it is the submissive partner who is having their fantasies met and the dominator is their to facilitate them.
I know this because I am a submissive myself lol.
I know I'm overstepping here and still don't really know you at all even though I read your thoughts every day, but I really don't think its good for you carrying and reinforcing these negative attitudes every day.
And also there is so much stigma against sexuality a lot of young people get put down by you when asking about masturbation or kink, when they've done nothing to hurt anyone, just because you associate them with men who hurt you.
Not at all trying to censor you, and this is months of emotions coming out at once, so I'm sorry for that. Don't hate me Rose!!
I have to agree. Age, sexuality, what you’re into,,, it doesn’t matter, what matter is the person/people you are attracted to/committed to are in the same place in their lives. Negative opinions about sexuality or kink or whatever—I get that if they’re backed up by logic. Saying something is gross and that someone is a pervert for liking what they like (provided it’s consensual) has a damaging impact on society.
Is it normal to want to be fucked by older men?
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When I was 19 years old 25 to 28 was old as far as I was concerned. I did date one 28 year old when I was 19, but he was a bass player in a band, and a really nice guy though.
Honestly, all the talk about much older domineering men and little, girly, submissive much younger women turns my stomach. It's very gross, and unnatural for me. If anything now that I'm 48 most of the guys who hit on me are usually much younger, and I'm fine with that, but I don't ever take them up on their offers. I was shopping with my mother yesterday, and someone thought I was in my 30's which kinda blew me away.
I will honestly never understand the crap with daddy issues stuff.
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Well, it's not like the perverts who hit on me when I was much younger were lining up to try to understand and empathize with why I was so horrified and disgusted with them sexually harassing me. Now that I'm in my forties forty-somethings don't make me uncomfortable, because they're my age, and besides the guys who talk to me are mostly younger so I have virtually no woforty... knock on wood.
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I know, I mean I don't know. But it sounds and I mean not just from this post, but like you've had horrendous luck with men, who have caused you immeasurable pain.
And I know you don't hate all men or even respectful people with fetishes, but our experiences have been so vastly different that I feel like you carry a bias that isn't true.
That being hypersexual, or sexually dominating men have some agenda to hurt women.
I can tell you that in domination scenarios it is the submissive partner who is having their fantasies met and the dominator is their to facilitate them.
I know this because I am a submissive myself lol.
I know I'm overstepping here and still don't really know you at all even though I read your thoughts every day, but I really don't think its good for you carrying and reinforcing these negative attitudes every day.
And also there is so much stigma against sexuality a lot of young people get put down by you when asking about masturbation or kink, when they've done nothing to hurt anyone, just because you associate them with men who hurt you.
Not at all trying to censor you, and this is months of emotions coming out at once, so I'm sorry for that. Don't hate me Rose!!
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I don't hate, please be assured that I don't hate you Ray.
I have to agree. Age, sexuality, what you’re into,,, it doesn’t matter, what matter is the person/people you are attracted to/committed to are in the same place in their lives. Negative opinions about sexuality or kink or whatever—I get that if they’re backed up by logic. Saying something is gross and that someone is a pervert for liking what they like (provided it’s consensual) has a damaging impact on society.
Rose you need to start nailing these young guys that hit on you.