I was talking to the original poster. There are quite a few men who want a real cock to fuck them in the ass because obviously the real thing feels better. However, it doesn't mean that these men want to cuddle, snuggle, kiss, fall in love with, or have children with another man. For men who want the real thing in the ass is just a pure sexual lust not to be confused with love. I have gone down on women but I'm not gay. And I don't want to have a relationship with these women beyond friends with benefits.
Sex is just physical pleasure not a relationship.
And sex with or without love or a relationship with the opposite gender is not heterosexual by definition, but who cares anyway? I certainly don't, but I do care about misleading language, not a lot but a bit
If its a woman with a strapon thats gonna fuck them, does it still make it gay ? Oh wait, it probably does in your mind. Is it "gay" if a woman puts a finger or a few in her mans ass ? So if he likes the feeling of that why even bother to label others if their life and sexual escapades does not affect people directly. Who cares what consenting adults do in private. I could give a crap less if they do the gerbil thing. Its not my house, my ass, or my gerbil.
So sorry, a simple misunderstanding on my part. I sit here in my bra and lingerie and get so relaxed that I lose focus or train of thought, but "Im not gay either" I just wouldnt mind if my buddy came and asked me to suck his cock again or let him suck mine again. The confusion wont or shouldnt happen again.
I look forward to the day when no-one cares enough to even use the terms gay or straight or bi .... but I probably won't live long enough. The younger people I know, from late teens to 40's, honestly don't give a stuff about anyone's sexuality, but then I'm lucky to move in enlightened accepting circles.
I've been straight, then bi, then lesbian, then lesbian but celibate, then heterosexual (very unsuccessfully) now just a lone and sometimes lonely single sexual person.
Wow, most of what you just said here could be my story as well, not the lesbian part, but Im willing to learn, but I never went to guys for a relationship, not into that part. I will suck their cock, play with their ass, balls and try to get them to cum and try to get my buddy someday to try fucking me in my ass, just to say I did and tried. Can I ask your age ? I am 48 or 55, I forget. Lol. But I am a crossdresser too. But the celibate part, hell, thats my life story.
I'm 68, 69 this month, still dunno how that happened so fast .....
Actually I just met a bloke I'm VERY interested in and I think he is in me too: about 10 minutes after I'd been bemoaning the fact to a friend that all the lesbians in this town are in couples and I couldn't get a lookin! Life's funny, aint it? But now I'm getting scared and thinking it'd be easier to keep it as a nice daydream than actually get involved, because that's so much safer.
I still don't know how to do this stuff after all these years but I did give him my phone number, which he hasn't called, and friended him on facebook and he friended me back, whatever the fuck that means .
is it normal to want to be bang in ass
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I was talking to the original poster. There are quite a few men who want a real cock to fuck them in the ass because obviously the real thing feels better. However, it doesn't mean that these men want to cuddle, snuggle, kiss, fall in love with, or have children with another man. For men who want the real thing in the ass is just a pure sexual lust not to be confused with love. I have gone down on women but I'm not gay. And I don't want to have a relationship with these women beyond friends with benefits.
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And sex with or without love or a relationship with the opposite gender is not heterosexual by definition, but who cares anyway? I certainly don't, but I do care about misleading language, not a lot but a bit
If its a woman with a strapon thats gonna fuck them, does it still make it gay ? Oh wait, it probably does in your mind. Is it "gay" if a woman puts a finger or a few in her mans ass ? So if he likes the feeling of that why even bother to label others if their life and sexual escapades does not affect people directly. Who cares what consenting adults do in private. I could give a crap less if they do the gerbil thing. Its not my house, my ass, or my gerbil.
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You've totally misunderstood me: I don't care either, I was merely parodying all the "I'm not gay but ...." posts
Gerbils? No, they're not capable of informed consent
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So sorry, a simple misunderstanding on my part. I sit here in my bra and lingerie and get so relaxed that I lose focus or train of thought, but "Im not gay either" I just wouldnt mind if my buddy came and asked me to suck his cock again or let him suck mine again. The confusion wont or shouldnt happen again.
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I look forward to the day when no-one cares enough to even use the terms gay or straight or bi .... but I probably won't live long enough. The younger people I know, from late teens to 40's, honestly don't give a stuff about anyone's sexuality, but then I'm lucky to move in enlightened accepting circles.
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Wow, most of what you just said here could be my story as well, not the lesbian part, but Im willing to learn, but I never went to guys for a relationship, not into that part. I will suck their cock, play with their ass, balls and try to get them to cum and try to get my buddy someday to try fucking me in my ass, just to say I did and tried. Can I ask your age ? I am 48 or 55, I forget. Lol. But I am a crossdresser too. But the celibate part, hell, thats my life story.
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I'm 68, 69 this month, still dunno how that happened so fast .....
Actually I just met a bloke I'm VERY interested in and I think he is in me too: about 10 minutes after I'd been bemoaning the fact to a friend that all the lesbians in this town are in couples and I couldn't get a lookin! Life's funny, aint it? But now I'm getting scared and thinking it'd be easier to keep it as a nice daydream than actually get involved, because that's so much safer.
I still don't know how to do this stuff after all these years but I did give him my phone number, which he hasn't called, and friended him on facebook and he friended me back, whatever the fuck that means .