Find Jesus- that is the only true answer. Most women are bitches but prayer and growth and God's love changes everything. It is normal by the way, all you are seeing, I've seen it a thousand times. It doesn't mean she's having an affair, that's ridiculous, it just means she's unhappy and probably comes from a critical family and her negativity has gotten out of control because, yes, women need a man (i.e. balls)- which means you have to stand up for yourself. Though I'm not saying she's not having an affair as I have no idea- I don't know her or you. Most people in general in the world, particularly in America, are severely unhappy now. We are living in the end times. Study the bible- prayer- follow the two main commandments: love God more than anything, and love people/neighbor almost as much- which essentially means helping people. Complicated and long but easily accessible when changing one's life with Jesus. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+22:34-40
I also highly suggest therapy via couples counseling but very few therapists are good enough. You have to search and search until you get the right one (highly intelligent and warm and experienced)- if you have insurance look into it that way- don't stop at first one or two unless they really click. Tell your wife you can't take her negativity anymore, tell her the whole family is tense with her and prefers her to not be around. That should be a wake up call for her to seek help with you! If she won't go, I say get a divorce, but that's just my opinion and something I'm still working out. Selfish people who don't want to grow or change will stay that way forever (unless a miracle by the grace of God) (and in these times, very few are going to receive those great gifts). They need to be with people like themselves or stay alone and miserable. God bless you and your family!
Is it normal to want to avoid your wife?
← View full post
Find Jesus- that is the only true answer. Most women are bitches but prayer and growth and God's love changes everything. It is normal by the way, all you are seeing, I've seen it a thousand times. It doesn't mean she's having an affair, that's ridiculous, it just means she's unhappy and probably comes from a critical family and her negativity has gotten out of control because, yes, women need a man (i.e. balls)- which means you have to stand up for yourself. Though I'm not saying she's not having an affair as I have no idea- I don't know her or you. Most people in general in the world, particularly in America, are severely unhappy now. We are living in the end times. Study the bible- prayer- follow the two main commandments: love God more than anything, and love people/neighbor almost as much- which essentially means helping people. Complicated and long but easily accessible when changing one's life with Jesus. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+22:34-40
I also highly suggest therapy via couples counseling but very few therapists are good enough. You have to search and search until you get the right one (highly intelligent and warm and experienced)- if you have insurance look into it that way- don't stop at first one or two unless they really click. Tell your wife you can't take her negativity anymore, tell her the whole family is tense with her and prefers her to not be around. That should be a wake up call for her to seek help with you! If she won't go, I say get a divorce, but that's just my opinion and something I'm still working out. Selfish people who don't want to grow or change will stay that way forever (unless a miracle by the grace of God) (and in these times, very few are going to receive those great gifts). They need to be with people like themselves or stay alone and miserable. God bless you and your family!