is it normal to want someone that will never desire you?

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago | pl

    Well, I dunno, For some people it's much easier to crush on the unattainable because you never have to worry about the stress of a relationship.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago | pl

      Seems self-masochistic. There are some who are into that.

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      • KeddersPrincess
        10 years ago | pl

        It's not self-masochistic, it's just easier for some people to have a crush than to go into a relationship. It doesn't hurt them. It's just easier that way.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago | pl

          It doesn't hurt them to be in love someone who will never love them back? I'm not sure I agree with you on that analysis.

          Whenever I've been in a that situation, it hurt like hell. To avoid further agony, I moved on.

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          • KeddersPrincess
            10 years ago | pl

            Well, I know that for me I've always been someone who has had crushes on unattainable men, never had a boyfriend and don't want one. I find that I am very satisfied crushing from afar and knowing that I don't have to deal with the stress of a relationship. If the time comes, maybe one day I will want a relationship with someone but, so far, I've only crushed on unattainable men and I'm very satisfied with it.

            For some people, maybe it's hard, but for others (including myself) it's much easier.

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