Is it normal to want someone but also want to be single?

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I have a boyfriend of two years but we've known each other since childhood. we know each other inside and outside and i do believe im in love with him. He has given me a promise ring and I honestly cant see any guy treating me as special as he does but i cant help but keep thinking "im only 18 i dont need to be in this serious committeed relationship yet." Then i start getting frustrated with him and start to think i want to be single and just have fun. is that normal?

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Based on 58 votes (53 yes)
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  • GeorgeMcBob
    12 years ago

    Dude, you have two balls but only one woman. Does that sound natural?

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    • 3L337
      10 years ago

      This is the second best thing I've ever heard. Ever.

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  • omphemetse
    9 years ago

    You have a rightful guy there don't throw it away for some stupid irresponsible ideas of parties or what they call having fun! what if you try to have fun n end up having sexual transmitted diseases? well i known some people who knew each other at a young age and end up having a happily marriage,Secondly you might be confused, well to tell you maybe you matured at an early age, so think carefully before making any decision

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  • Miss.Dot
    12 years ago

    Tell him to give you time to really get to know yourself a little and experience new stuff,that can help him too and in time you can get back together ^^

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  • matilda10
    13 years ago

    I'm 19 and getting married in oct. Everyone is different, maturity levels etc. I admire you. All this "get out and live and party" meaning "get trashed, be a slut and sleep with your best friends boyfriend" more younger ppl need to be settled and committed, would save soooo much trouble that we see now!

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  • loviex102
    13 years ago

    you're young, you need to see whats out there before you committ.

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  • [email protected]
    14 years ago

    You have a hesitation, it means that you don't have a deep love for him. So, leave him, and be a single.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    you are only 18, therefore i think being single is a good idea. there's lots of great people out there for you to experience, but how will you ever do that if you are tied down to someone you chose at the age of 16.

    you are too young to choose a lifetime partner at the age of 18.

    we all seem to think we "know our own minds" at that age, but find out later that we do indeed mature and change.

    the fact that you are questioning it shows that staying together is probably not in your own best interest.

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  • Hayabusa
    14 years ago

    your 18 and in your prime, have fun now and enjoy parties, hanging out with friends, college life etc then be be in a serious committed relationship when your around your late 20's in my opinion.

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