My answer really depends on how one defines "normal" here. It isn't normal in the sense of being a common thing (at least, as far as I know). Morally, though, I'd say you're perfectly fine as long as you don't act on said fantasies. People can't help who or what they're attracted to (how many popular songs are about wanting to get over someone but not being able to??), but the difference is how they react to having said fantasies. My sympathies, because that has to be a tough thing to deal with. If it's impacting your quality of life or (especially if) you think you're getting to the point where you might not be able to control said urges anymore, I'd urge you to seek some counseling and/or a support group. I was talking to someone the other day who runs some sort of group thing for those who suffer from pedophilia but haven't acted on it, and apparently it can really help individuals in that situation. There are resources out there, so if you need them, don't be afraid to reach out and go for it :)
IIN to want sex with kids or animals if you don't act on it
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My answer really depends on how one defines "normal" here. It isn't normal in the sense of being a common thing (at least, as far as I know). Morally, though, I'd say you're perfectly fine as long as you don't act on said fantasies. People can't help who or what they're attracted to (how many popular songs are about wanting to get over someone but not being able to??), but the difference is how they react to having said fantasies. My sympathies, because that has to be a tough thing to deal with. If it's impacting your quality of life or (especially if) you think you're getting to the point where you might not be able to control said urges anymore, I'd urge you to seek some counseling and/or a support group. I was talking to someone the other day who runs some sort of group thing for those who suffer from pedophilia but haven't acted on it, and apparently it can really help individuals in that situation. There are resources out there, so if you need them, don't be afraid to reach out and go for it :)