Is it normal to want sex in long distance relationship?

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I am living a long distance relationship the guy I am with used to ask for phone sex and sex chat more. Now he doesn’t, should I be worried? I tried to tell him that I was horny twice he told me sorry bb I am not horny and I need to sleep I have work. However, he calls me in the next morning to see how I am doing. How can I lead him to the sex talk without me starting, how can I get him in the mood? If he does not want sex mean that he is cheating?

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  • theAnomilyGuy
    12 years ago | pl

    First I think taking advice from any other woman who would be asking for advice themselves given the same situation would be jumping to conclusions. Second, as a guy I know that we have periods of sexual arousal and periods of not. 3rd, if he was in a period of wanting it, and he was cheating, he ask it from you aswell. For guys one sex isn't gonna replace another if it's not commitment related. If we're not trying to stay commited we'll take sex from both. If we are commited we only have sex with the gf, but only when we feel like it. I hope that was understandable.

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    • pem24
      11 years ago | pl

      Haha! Us girls really have troubles on undestanding how men thinks. But here you explained it clearly and handy. :)

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  • jensapa
    12 years ago | pl

    I would think there was something goin on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Whether or not he is having relations with a female in his immediate vicinity depends. It depends on how long you two have been apart, how long you will continue to be apart (if the relationship will continue to be a long distance one), the influence of his family and friends(who are probably trying to hook him up with a date where he lives), how committed he is to you, and how much actual sex means to him versus the virtual variety. Long distance relationships usually start showing signs of wear and tear in about 3 months.

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  • lamartin
    12 years ago | pl

    Thank you very much, your advice made me feel better, I am lost. I love this guy more than anything of my life. I always try to leave him, but I never could. He is my everything the problem sometimes I feel he loves me and other time I don’t. He is great and a lot of girls fallow him. I honestly don’t know what to do…

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  • lamartin
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah it makes sence, thanks

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