Btw, It made me laugh that you are talking about a yes no maybe so chart when my username is called the same.
I think it sounds great. If you decided to wait for sex until marriage because of your religion (It's something I do not understand but I will respect), I think you need to at least TALK about it. You talk about all the things you want to do, and experience together, once you are already married. It doesn't need to be a chart like this, it sounds a little bit too... I dont know what to call it. I mean, don't print a paper with the list and be like please fill this up. I reckon that's too much! I'd feel like you are "studying me". It needs to be mutual, like, hey, let's daydream about this. Would you do that? oh me too. But i would be a little reluctant to do that, what about you? and obviously you can check out that chart you mention for ideas....
IIN to want physical contact but not necessarily sex?
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Btw, It made me laugh that you are talking about a yes no maybe so chart when my username is called the same.
I think it sounds great. If you decided to wait for sex until marriage because of your religion (It's something I do not understand but I will respect), I think you need to at least TALK about it. You talk about all the things you want to do, and experience together, once you are already married. It doesn't need to be a chart like this, it sounds a little bit too... I dont know what to call it. I mean, don't print a paper with the list and be like please fill this up. I reckon that's too much! I'd feel like you are "studying me". It needs to be mutual, like, hey, let's daydream about this. Would you do that? oh me too. But i would be a little reluctant to do that, what about you? and obviously you can check out that chart you mention for ideas....