Is it normal to want pain with pleasure?

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I try to have sex with my boyfriend but he is not rough enough. I have never been in a very kinky relationship before and he tries to do what he can to be dominating but it's never enough. I feel like he should be doing a lot more extreme things in the bedroom such as things considered torture and I rarely get off because of it. I haven't told him why he doesn't "do it" for me simply because I feel so embarrased. Is it normal to want such extreme methods of pain during sex?

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  • irishguillotine
    12 years ago | pl

    Its not as abnormal as you think, I am very into pain....im more into giving, but my wife is very into recieving, so communication is key, sit him down and tell him exactly what you want or you will never get what you want in the bedroom.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I feel the same way, I think pain along with the pleasure of sex is perfect, you get the roughness along with the pounding pleasure. watch some bondage videos, and maybe get your significant other to be more open minded about getting crazy rough. ;)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      Haha I kinda hinted towards it last night and I'm pregnant now so maybe afterwards he'll be a lot more aggresive. I just love the feeling of pure dominence lol.

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