I am most likely going to get massively attacked for saying this, but it is my opinion. Juggalo = Fucking retarded as shit. The idea started with people that were underprivileged being proud of their means of living instead of ashamed, and wasn't a bad thing at all. It has evolved into so many bad things its hard to count. Drugs, violence, and rebellion against "the man". The "juggalo" community is classified as a hybrid gang, and serious threat by the FBI now!
You have given him every opportunity to make something of himself, and it's about time to put your foot down. If something is not done he will live in your den smoking pot and playing video games forever. Do everything you can to get him a job, set a move out date, and stick to it. If you keep giving in to him he wont change, tough love time!
Hey everyone I know this is kindve off topic but does anyone know a good job ? to get when you have no collage and you need work economy sucks and I have no trades or useful skills at all anyone know somthing good ? I know cop , flight attedent , anything else that makes a decent enough living ?
Depends on how dedicated you can be to your job. The people I work with that take the job seriously make $120,000 or more every single year. But that requires 12 hour shifts at least 6 days a week, plus a lot of work off the clock.
Selling cars is an extremely easy job to get, requires no education, and you will be trained in all the skills needed on the job. The money is amazing in this business, which was not affected in the least by the bad economy. The down side being huge amounts of stress, huge amounts of time invested, and a lot of work.
Well my son can't brag about being lower income. We are upper middle class. My wife and I both finished college and we worked to save up for a house, back when you could still do that, and we bought our first place and had our first kid and I experienced enough success in my career for our kids to be raised in a nice home with a full time mother. My wife is a great lady with a good head on her shoulders and wouldn't dare conceive a child if she had any doubt in her mind as to how she would provide for her children. The world is cruel to children from low income families.
We have spent countless nights discussing what we did wrong. He just came home from school one day and told us that we were trying to shove Jesus down his throat and brainwashing him with religion and lies. The curious part is that we never made our kids go to church if they didn't want to. We encouraged freedom of thought in our home, and two of our kids did stay home on Sundays from the time they were old enough to legally do so and one of our kids is still an atheist and when she visits she still stays home on Sunday morning.
We're not yokels or ignorant old folk by any means. We understand that America is not the same country we were raised in and that is, in many ways, a positive thing. While we understand that what we are as a family is not what is defined as the only definition of family anymore, we still hold the belief that parents should work hard to give their kids a better life than they had and kids should work hard to have that better life afforded to them. He's been at this for about four years now and I'll start talking to my wife again about how to get him the hell out.
I didn't mean to insinuate that you were yokels or bad parents if I did. It sounds to me like you provided a great life for your kids, and raised two successful well adjusted offspring.
My beef lies exclusively with the "juggalo" lifestyle. It started as a community of acceptance for lower income and under-privileged people, and has turned into a group of people who strive for that. They made it "cool" to accomplish nothing in life apart from smoking pot and crashing in your den. They have established a strong idea of who "the man" is, and instilled it in peoples heads that they have to fight a constant battle against said "man".
The point stays valid that you have to do something about this, or you will be stuck with a permanent live in. I have no parenting experience myself so you are the authority in this matter. If I was in your shoes, there would be a specific move out date set, and continued efforts to get him employed. You can only do so much before he has to be held accountable for his lifestyle!
Is it normal to want my son OUT OF THE HOUSE!?
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I am most likely going to get massively attacked for saying this, but it is my opinion. Juggalo = Fucking retarded as shit. The idea started with people that were underprivileged being proud of their means of living instead of ashamed, and wasn't a bad thing at all. It has evolved into so many bad things its hard to count. Drugs, violence, and rebellion against "the man". The "juggalo" community is classified as a hybrid gang, and serious threat by the FBI now!
You have given him every opportunity to make something of himself, and it's about time to put your foot down. If something is not done he will live in your den smoking pot and playing video games forever. Do everything you can to get him a job, set a move out date, and stick to it. If you keep giving in to him he wont change, tough love time!
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Hey everyone I know this is kindve off topic but does anyone know a good job ? to get when you have no collage and you need work economy sucks and I have no trades or useful skills at all anyone know somthing good ? I know cop , flight attedent , anything else that makes a decent enough living ?
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Depends on how dedicated you can be to your job. The people I work with that take the job seriously make $120,000 or more every single year. But that requires 12 hour shifts at least 6 days a week, plus a lot of work off the clock.
Selling cars is an extremely easy job to get, requires no education, and you will be trained in all the skills needed on the job. The money is amazing in this business, which was not affected in the least by the bad economy. The down side being huge amounts of stress, huge amounts of time invested, and a lot of work.
Well my son can't brag about being lower income. We are upper middle class. My wife and I both finished college and we worked to save up for a house, back when you could still do that, and we bought our first place and had our first kid and I experienced enough success in my career for our kids to be raised in a nice home with a full time mother. My wife is a great lady with a good head on her shoulders and wouldn't dare conceive a child if she had any doubt in her mind as to how she would provide for her children. The world is cruel to children from low income families.
We have spent countless nights discussing what we did wrong. He just came home from school one day and told us that we were trying to shove Jesus down his throat and brainwashing him with religion and lies. The curious part is that we never made our kids go to church if they didn't want to. We encouraged freedom of thought in our home, and two of our kids did stay home on Sundays from the time they were old enough to legally do so and one of our kids is still an atheist and when she visits she still stays home on Sunday morning.
We're not yokels or ignorant old folk by any means. We understand that America is not the same country we were raised in and that is, in many ways, a positive thing. While we understand that what we are as a family is not what is defined as the only definition of family anymore, we still hold the belief that parents should work hard to give their kids a better life than they had and kids should work hard to have that better life afforded to them. He's been at this for about four years now and I'll start talking to my wife again about how to get him the hell out.
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I didn't mean to insinuate that you were yokels or bad parents if I did. It sounds to me like you provided a great life for your kids, and raised two successful well adjusted offspring.
My beef lies exclusively with the "juggalo" lifestyle. It started as a community of acceptance for lower income and under-privileged people, and has turned into a group of people who strive for that. They made it "cool" to accomplish nothing in life apart from smoking pot and crashing in your den. They have established a strong idea of who "the man" is, and instilled it in peoples heads that they have to fight a constant battle against said "man".
The point stays valid that you have to do something about this, or you will be stuck with a permanent live in. I have no parenting experience myself so you are the authority in this matter. If I was in your shoes, there would be a specific move out date set, and continued efforts to get him employed. You can only do so much before he has to be held accountable for his lifestyle!