Religion, way of life, whatever you call it, it is a piss poor excuse to be a bum. And where the hell did you get that I didn't want kids? I know it's difficult for many young folks I talk to to understand but some people do plan their children.
I am 60 years old and healthy, married to the most wonderful woman on Earth for 35 years, and have a good retirement savings and enough left over to spoil my grandkids and part of that includes that fucking that supposedly ruined my life. I love my life and my kids. This is one inconvenience. I pity anyone who has the mentality that one inconvenience constitutes a ruined life.
My wife and I did our best with all of our children. The problem is that eventually they developed a mind of their own. That's what happens when kids grow up. They become people. Who knew? Point is, there's no such thing as a perfect parent.
Sounds like I'm screwed though. I just want him to do something other than sit on his ass and play video games and go out and get drunk.
If he is content playing xbox, getting drunk and doing nothing, then why would he want to stop? He has to have incentives to change.
As long as you allow him to live off you, there's nothing motivating him to do anything different. Therefore you have to provide the incentive.
Explain how you feel to him, and then start making him as uncomfortable as possible, remove as many luxuries (that you paid/pay for) from him as possible. Don't buy him food (he can get his own). Don't allow him to use your internet (unless he pays) - you could change the password so only you and your wife know it. Give him a reason to go get a job and get out of your hair!
If he still won't budge, then resort to drastic measures.
I really like the way you defended yourself in this comment. Thumbs up, sir.
Sorry about your bum-kid problem. I don't have any experience with this, or I would try and give you some advice on the matter. I do agree with a lot of the other comments on here about taking away his luxuries and stuff that you pay for though. It probably won't be easy, but good luck!
Is it normal to want my son OUT OF THE HOUSE!?
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Religion, way of life, whatever you call it, it is a piss poor excuse to be a bum. And where the hell did you get that I didn't want kids? I know it's difficult for many young folks I talk to to understand but some people do plan their children.
I am 60 years old and healthy, married to the most wonderful woman on Earth for 35 years, and have a good retirement savings and enough left over to spoil my grandkids and part of that includes that fucking that supposedly ruined my life. I love my life and my kids. This is one inconvenience. I pity anyone who has the mentality that one inconvenience constitutes a ruined life.
My wife and I did our best with all of our children. The problem is that eventually they developed a mind of their own. That's what happens when kids grow up. They become people. Who knew? Point is, there's no such thing as a perfect parent.
Sounds like I'm screwed though. I just want him to do something other than sit on his ass and play video games and go out and get drunk.
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If he is content playing xbox, getting drunk and doing nothing, then why would he want to stop? He has to have incentives to change.
As long as you allow him to live off you, there's nothing motivating him to do anything different. Therefore you have to provide the incentive.
Explain how you feel to him, and then start making him as uncomfortable as possible, remove as many luxuries (that you paid/pay for) from him as possible. Don't buy him food (he can get his own). Don't allow him to use your internet (unless he pays) - you could change the password so only you and your wife know it. Give him a reason to go get a job and get out of your hair!
If he still won't budge, then resort to drastic measures.
I really like the way you defended yourself in this comment. Thumbs up, sir.
Sorry about your bum-kid problem. I don't have any experience with this, or I would try and give you some advice on the matter. I do agree with a lot of the other comments on here about taking away his luxuries and stuff that you pay for though. It probably won't be easy, but good luck!
Throw him out.
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Haha, I suppose I did "anti-troll" you on this one. XD
Sorry Parrish, but he had the better comeback :)
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I thought it was a troll post at first. I didn't really feel that way, I thought I was fucking with a troll.
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I did enjoy and get a laugh out of this line by you though:
"Of course if he is a real Juggalo he will just live in your yard with all his shit."