Is it normal to want my s/o to help with my kinks?

I'm a submissive, femboy and I really want to be tied up and have my s/o eat my ass and spank me hard no matter how much I pretend to hate it. I really want to be used and let my S/O take my body whenever they want.

I also really really enjoy being verbally degraded (such as being called a faggot) and being "owned".

Maybe I can find a guy who wouldn't mind raping me and using me like I was supposed to be used. I hope to find a daddy and/or a lover one day ;-;

Is It Normal?
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  • Of course it's normal, to want a significant other to enjoy the same kinks, as their partner !

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  • Don't forget to use protection, otherwise enjoy your STDs.

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  • Of course you want your significant other to participate in your fetishes. Why wouldn't you unless your fetishes were absolutely horrific?

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  • What if the verbal degradation included "yo mamma" jokes?

    And when you say "owned", you mean like being someone's property or owned as in, "ZOMG pwn3d lollercoasters what a fag lolololol" like short-bus riders in the early 2000's used to say when bickering on the web?

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  • Sharing the same kinks is pretty magical. I hope you find the one. I did once. Sadly I ruined it. Do better than I did, and be happy. It's normal. :)

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  • Pretty sure fetlife is a good site for finding people into stuff like that, never got too good at meeting people online cause its a lot of work but Ive heard good things about it.

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  • Is that right? Not THAT uncommon as a fantasy but not too many people on earth are into it, and a small percentage of those people are gay males. You could get lucky but it will be tough finding exactly what you looking for.

    On a side note I would like a hot woman to do all those things to me! (except being called a faggot)

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    • Thank you! It really helps a lot to know I'm not the only one into these things.

      I always felt kind of guilty asking my S/O to do these things or if they're into similar stuff.

      I thought it would weird them out or that it wasn't normal to want to be abused like that...

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  • Well one dude on this side surely would, but I think he’s straight haha

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