You are no-one to judge how much time he needs for himself. You said "He doesn't need 3 days to be on his own". Well that shows you are clingy, because he obviously does need that much time or more, and if you want to be with him you must respect that. Also, it is perfectly normal that he wants to hang out with his friends without you, this does not mean he doesn't want you, it means he likes being with his friends exclusively sometimes. Thinking you are the center of his world will just make things worse. I can feel from what you say, that he is already pretty tired of your absorbent attitude. Maybe instead of saying "I don't want him to think I am clingy" you should say "I want to stop being so clingy".
I feel sorry for you because you are obviously more dependent on him than he is on you, but in most relationships it is like that. Men like time with their pals and on their own that girls. That's how it works.
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You are no-one to judge how much time he needs for himself. You said "He doesn't need 3 days to be on his own". Well that shows you are clingy, because he obviously does need that much time or more, and if you want to be with him you must respect that. Also, it is perfectly normal that he wants to hang out with his friends without you, this does not mean he doesn't want you, it means he likes being with his friends exclusively sometimes. Thinking you are the center of his world will just make things worse. I can feel from what you say, that he is already pretty tired of your absorbent attitude. Maybe instead of saying "I don't want him to think I am clingy" you should say "I want to stop being so clingy".
I feel sorry for you because you are obviously more dependent on him than he is on you, but in most relationships it is like that. Men like time with their pals and on their own that girls. That's how it works.