I know this is an older post and I realize that it's no longer relevant but I think it's normal. As long as you don't hurt each other it's not necessarily wrong to request something of your boyfriend in the "looks department", provided that you ask nicely and respect his answer whether he's willing to do it or not.
Because if you do ask nicely, there are many guys willing to improve their physique a bit. I've done it for my girlfriend as well and I do respect her enough to work out a lot to look good to her.
Is it normal to want my boyfriend to get abs?
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I know this is an older post and I realize that it's no longer relevant but I think it's normal. As long as you don't hurt each other it's not necessarily wrong to request something of your boyfriend in the "looks department", provided that you ask nicely and respect his answer whether he's willing to do it or not.
Because if you do ask nicely, there are many guys willing to improve their physique a bit. I've done it for my girlfriend as well and I do respect her enough to work out a lot to look good to her.