Yeah it's normal to want that. It's not normal to make him feel inadequate or 'small' because he doesn't have it though.
How would you feel if he decided over time he thought you'd look better a little skinnier or a little fatter, and he let you know this? Do you think you'd feel good about yourself? Or do you think you'd feel a bit shit; insecure and self conscious?
Best just to accept that he doesn't want abs. Focus on his positives, just as you hope he focuses on yours.
Is it normal to want my boyfriend to get abs?
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Yeah it's normal to want that. It's not normal to make him feel inadequate or 'small' because he doesn't have it though.
How would you feel if he decided over time he thought you'd look better a little skinnier or a little fatter, and he let you know this? Do you think you'd feel good about yourself? Or do you think you'd feel a bit shit; insecure and self conscious?
Best just to accept that he doesn't want abs. Focus on his positives, just as you hope he focuses on yours.