Is it normal to want my best friends baby

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I've always wanted a child of my own but never found the right partner until I met my best friend. We've known eachother for over a year now and what started off as friendship quickly turned into love. We sat down and discussed the baby situation and decided as I have osteoporosis it would be better if she carried the child. The plan was to get a "boyfriend" (I just want to point out he said from day one he didn't want anything serious) and once she had conceived to leave him and we'd have the child together but she can't bring herself to get rid of him now. We are very much in love and as we are both very religious we do not "agree" with homosexuality, the only option would be to leave our family n friends and start our own lives. We're both very for this idea but we're starting to get cold feet and now the boy has fallen in love with her it's just making the situation more difficult. We already knew it would be hard for an inter-racial Catholic homosexual couple to have a child but it's getting a bit out of our depths now, should we persue our dream? Or live our lives hidden from the truth?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    How about this?

    Google invitro-fertilization. Then you have the zygote implanted inside her for her to give birth to it.

    This it would be like both of you are the child's mother. But invitro is expensive tho.

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  • hueraaa
    12 years ago | pl

    in my opinion it would be best to pursue your life with the one you love.
    so, that would mean being with her.
    but of she thinks she is in love with this boy, then she may not have the same feelings you do.

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  • ElectricGhost
    12 years ago | pl

    that's a hard one

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