Is it normal to want him back

So I was dating this guy and everything was going awesome. One day he was acting really weird and told me we needed to hang out and talk. The next day he showed up to my work and waited for me to get done. When I finished work he confessed that he had cheated on me. When it happened the girl had instigated it and he said onced he relized what he was doing he lost it. His parents found him in his room having a panic attack and they made the girl leave. He was really upset telling me this but I couldn't handle it at the time and broke up with him. Ever since we broke up he has been really upset and wants me back an I have been missing him alot. Is this normal, and what should I do?

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Based on 58 votes (43 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • Troll

    Age:
    Me: 12
    Him:50
    Lasted: 5 hours

    Pedobear is after your kids!!!

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  • NicoleeLynn

    What does that have to do with anything?

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    • ucipher8

      easy they are 18, move forward quickly before you end up being 21 and pregnant, which ends up being 31 and regretful, and then finally 42 with an unfaithful marriage so far off the rocks its teetering on a cliff.

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  • NicoleeLynn

    We're both 18, and 2 months.

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    • ucipher8

      if he's the "one" for you, take a break now and get back together at say 25 or 28 and see if either of you still feel the same way. Think about it this way, you found true love, now you dont have to date anymore you can focus on professional pursuits or marital ones.

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  • runnergirl

    First few things: ages and length of relationship?

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  • Ages: 46 he's 47
    Date of relationship: 6 months

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