Is it normal to want him back?

Continue to communicate with him and see where it leads u. Dont put all your energy in it. As soon as u ignore him is when he'll be blowing your phone up!

I had exactly the same thing. I was with someone for 4 months, he'd be fine, even talked about me marrying him, and then he'd totally Ignore me for a day, then call up like nothing happened. I truly don't think he was seeing anyone else, but I don't think he could handle a relationship. In the end I ended it cuz I was sick of game playing as I'd done nothing wrong. I'm glad I'm out of it, but you have to do what you have to do, the only thing I'd say is step back and if he wants you he'll come. If he's worth it he ll try, if he tries, he's worth it.

he sounds like a dick... why would you want to be with a guy like that? you can do much better, sweetie.

You will find a much better guy! This current guy is ignoring you and acting selfish. Find a nicer, more caring guy! When you date a really cool guy, you will be so much happier than you are now.

he is using a sly technique to seduce you . just ignore it. cos i have done it before and it works. wont do it again cos im true to my gf. and shes the only one who wouldnt stand to my bullshit. shes special

I know how you feel. I went through a similar situation and I still think about him from time to time. Like the previous comment says the first rule you should go by is not calling him and not answering any of his texts/phone calls. Its really hard to understand, but here is the reasoning behind it... You say that he is being distant whenever you call and try to talk to him?- Listen to your instinct, have you ever done this b4 with somebody? He is probably feeling guilty because he doesnt want to be with you and you are so still in love with him- also he is probably keeping you around because he is afraid to be lonely (which could explain why he is answering the phone.) The reason you don't need to call him or answer his calls is b/c (im guessing you could never stand to be just friends with this guy, right?) if he truly wants to be with you he will go to great lengths to contact you- show up at your house for instance- send 20 billion emails... make him chase you! It might even make him realize you are the one for him.

My other advice to you is- keep yourself busy. Develop a hobby- or strengthen an old one. Talk to friends and set up girls nights. Just please dont get into another relationship until you are over him, b/c you will only end up hurting yourself more.

Lastly, if he was everything you ever wanted and you two were perfect for each other- then you would be together. Don't settle for less than what you deserve. Don't try to change him either because it wont work. People are who they are and it will only leave you miserable, heart broken, and wasting time. There is someone right for you, you just need to be patient and smart about it. You need to tell yourself you deserve it, too! Think of it this way: would you disappear for a day? Would you treat him like he has treated you? Why did he treat you that way--- There is something wrong with this picture, and you deserve someone who is just as crazy about you as you are them!!!

Best of wishes.

no talking after a breakup is a really good rule. he wasn't everything you wanted because of the not talking to you stuff, etc. find a better boyfriend. there are better people out there, trust me.