Typical guy thing im afriad, if they see a girl naked in bed with a guy they straight away think you had sex, you shouldnt have appoligised and tell him that nothing had happened, but sounds like he gets very jelouse over nothing
Where did it say they were naked? I would understand him wanting to break up with her if she was naked with another guy... I mean, come on! I'm female, and I would certainly dump my boyfriend if I found him naked in bed with another girl... But I was under the impression that she was fully-clothed, but just crashed with her friend in bed? Please, correct me if I'm wrong.
What? If a guy sees a girl naked in bed with another man, how can he not assume they had sex? Even if they hadn't, it would be very hard not to believe them. If my gf found me in bed with a naked girl, she'd probably dump me straight away :/
exactly this.
we are in a open relationship, so it's all fine, but if my girl sleeps at another friends place or i wake up for work to find another girl in her room, i automatically assume something "happened", even if nothing did and it was just a normal sleep-over for lack of public transportation during night.
It's human nature, and very hard to explain such situations, even if one is innocent. I feel sorry for OP though, so many people do things that are wrong and get away with it, she did not and gets punished.
All the best of Karma to you for the future, OP.
Yes and its not appropriate to have a bf and to sleep in your best friend(male) bed for the night. How does he know that? She has no evidence of not doing it either. She should not have been so stupid to begin with. Its understandable her boyfriend would be upset. Even if she did do something she would react the same way and lie about it. So what do you really expect him to do in such a situation? Op also does not seem to understand why he is mad. So she probably does not understand the rules of a relationship. Certien things you do not do!
why think that, just cos a girl sleeps naked with a guy doent mean shes let him have sex, same as if a girl has male friends doesnt mean they are having sex. As i said before if your girlfriend would do that rhen there is a big lack of trust there!!
Thats what I mean, all guys think with there cocks and just cos a girl sleeps with a guy and there naked doesnt mean they had sex, this guy sounds like if he thinks that he doesnt trust her at all cos trust is a big thing in any relationship and speeks volumes, maybe she shoudlnt be with him and as for your gf to think that then maybe she doesnt trust you!!! I have been in bed with many a guy but also been in bed with guys and not had sex!!
Yes, but have you been naked in bed with guys whilst with a partner? I think alot of people in relationships would be very upset if their partner were sleeping naked in beds with other people :/
yes I have been naked in bed when ive been with any of my partners, some where my ex partners friends and none of them upset cos they had trust in me to say if i had fucked any of them or not. as I said before sounds like this guy and your girlfriend have trust issues!!!
And they didn't care? Sorry, but I find that bizarre. I would be hell upset if my gf slept naked in bed with other guys and she would be upset if I slept in bed naked with other girls. Trust issues or not, I think a lot of people in relationships would break up with their partner too.
they didnt care cos they trusted me to say wheather i had sex with them or not, if i did have sex i would tell my bf and not hide it, there is a lot of trust isuess with you and your gf
Is it normal to want from my ex to forgive me?
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Where did it say they were naked? I would understand him wanting to break up with her if she was naked with another guy... I mean, come on! I'm female, and I would certainly dump my boyfriend if I found him naked in bed with another girl... But I was under the impression that she was fully-clothed, but just crashed with her friend in bed? Please, correct me if I'm wrong.
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What? If a guy sees a girl naked in bed with another man, how can he not assume they had sex? Even if they hadn't, it would be very hard not to believe them. If my gf found me in bed with a naked girl, she'd probably dump me straight away :/
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exactly this.
we are in a open relationship, so it's all fine, but if my girl sleeps at another friends place or i wake up for work to find another girl in her room, i automatically assume something "happened", even if nothing did and it was just a normal sleep-over for lack of public transportation during night.
It's human nature, and very hard to explain such situations, even if one is innocent. I feel sorry for OP though, so many people do things that are wrong and get away with it, she did not and gets punished.
All the best of Karma to you for the future, OP.
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Yes and its not appropriate to have a bf and to sleep in your best friend(male) bed for the night. How does he know that? She has no evidence of not doing it either. She should not have been so stupid to begin with. Its understandable her boyfriend would be upset. Even if she did do something she would react the same way and lie about it. So what do you really expect him to do in such a situation? Op also does not seem to understand why he is mad. So she probably does not understand the rules of a relationship. Certien things you do not do!
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Hey, I've never said I was naked in bed! nor did my friend. We were just asleep. That's all..
why think that, just cos a girl sleeps naked with a guy doent mean shes let him have sex, same as if a girl has male friends doesnt mean they are having sex. As i said before if your girlfriend would do that rhen there is a big lack of trust there!!
Thats what I mean, all guys think with there cocks and just cos a girl sleeps with a guy and there naked doesnt mean they had sex, this guy sounds like if he thinks that he doesnt trust her at all cos trust is a big thing in any relationship and speeks volumes, maybe she shoudlnt be with him and as for your gf to think that then maybe she doesnt trust you!!! I have been in bed with many a guy but also been in bed with guys and not had sex!!
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Yes, but have you been naked in bed with guys whilst with a partner? I think alot of people in relationships would be very upset if their partner were sleeping naked in beds with other people :/
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yes I have been naked in bed when ive been with any of my partners, some where my ex partners friends and none of them upset cos they had trust in me to say if i had fucked any of them or not. as I said before sounds like this guy and your girlfriend have trust issues!!!
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And they didn't care? Sorry, but I find that bizarre. I would be hell upset if my gf slept naked in bed with other guys and she would be upset if I slept in bed naked with other girls. Trust issues or not, I think a lot of people in relationships would break up with their partner too.
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they didnt care cos they trusted me to say wheather i had sex with them or not, if i did have sex i would tell my bf and not hide it, there is a lot of trust isuess with you and your gf