You're rational with this, and aside from cheating, are fair as well. Yeah, lay your cards on the table, tell him in a nice way that you want an open relationship, and see where he's at. Maybe try and seduce him to the idea with a possible three-sum at some point?
Also I was looking for something like this too, and I think the ground rules are basically don't rub who you're involved with in the other persons face, and be prepared that he'll find someone else too.
thanks for being understanding, I know from an outside perspective it must sound so strange. I have tried many times to have a deep conversation with him about what he wants in our relationship, and it always boils down to "as long as you still love me" and it makes me so upset, like he has such low expectations. It's just the type of person he is and I wish it wasnt like that
IIN to want an open relationship as a bisexual woman
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You're rational with this, and aside from cheating, are fair as well. Yeah, lay your cards on the table, tell him in a nice way that you want an open relationship, and see where he's at. Maybe try and seduce him to the idea with a possible three-sum at some point?
Also I was looking for something like this too, and I think the ground rules are basically don't rub who you're involved with in the other persons face, and be prepared that he'll find someone else too.
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thanks for being understanding, I know from an outside perspective it must sound so strange. I have tried many times to have a deep conversation with him about what he wants in our relationship, and it always boils down to "as long as you still love me" and it makes me so upset, like he has such low expectations. It's just the type of person he is and I wish it wasnt like that
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Have you thought about getting him a hooker? If for nothing else then they should boost his confidence quite a bit.