What you should have done in the begining was to have gotten him to give up his custode of his child. He wanted nothing to do with you all, then you should have made it legal. I have seen this situation before. My friend was in a horrible marriage (he was a alcoholic but not really abusive) And she went through with the divorce. He never showed up to the court hearings and they even tried to call all of his phone #'s. He never picked up or showed up. This went on for three days, and the judge was forced to assume that he wanted nothing to do with the child and basically gave full custdy to the mother.
Basically what is the legal situation? Does he actually have rights to see the child? Do you have any evidence that he is abusive/violent towards you or children? If you do, the get a good lawyer and prove to the court that he is unfit to see your child under ANY circumstance whotsoever. And get him on back-child-support...(my mother did...and now my dad is in debt forever...and i'm 21 now!)
Is it normal to want an abusive ex out of your kid's life
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What you should have done in the begining was to have gotten him to give up his custode of his child. He wanted nothing to do with you all, then you should have made it legal. I have seen this situation before. My friend was in a horrible marriage (he was a alcoholic but not really abusive) And she went through with the divorce. He never showed up to the court hearings and they even tried to call all of his phone #'s. He never picked up or showed up. This went on for three days, and the judge was forced to assume that he wanted nothing to do with the child and basically gave full custdy to the mother.
Basically what is the legal situation? Does he actually have rights to see the child? Do you have any evidence that he is abusive/violent towards you or children? If you do, the get a good lawyer and prove to the court that he is unfit to see your child under ANY circumstance whotsoever. And get him on back-child-support...(my mother did...and now my dad is in debt forever...and i'm 21 now!)