This is a really tricky situation. He is a parent and obviously has some rights. You too have rights not to have to deal with someone who was abusive. Most importantly, your children have the right to a happy life but also to know their father/step-father. In this case, I don't think you can deal with it yourself. I don't know what bodies there are in your country for dealing with issues like this but I think you need some kind of arbitration or conciliatory service to arrange an appropriate level of access (even if that is no access at all) and also procedures to be undertaken if he breaks any of the rules of his access.
Is it normal to want an abusive ex out of your kid's life
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This is a really tricky situation. He is a parent and obviously has some rights. You too have rights not to have to deal with someone who was abusive. Most importantly, your children have the right to a happy life but also to know their father/step-father. In this case, I don't think you can deal with it yourself. I don't know what bodies there are in your country for dealing with issues like this but I think you need some kind of arbitration or conciliatory service to arrange an appropriate level of access (even if that is no access at all) and also procedures to be undertaken if he breaks any of the rules of his access.