Yes, but perhaps abuse is the wrong word. Abuse implies it's against your will. What you actually want is someone to do the things you want done, within set boundaries. You're looking for someone dominant, rather than abusive. I've not gone too far down this path myself, but people do it. Hopefully, you'll find what you need.
Is it normal to want an abusive boy/guy friend to beat me before sex?
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Yes, but perhaps abuse is the wrong word. Abuse implies it's against your will. What you actually want is someone to do the things you want done, within set boundaries. You're looking for someone dominant, rather than abusive. I've not gone too far down this path myself, but people do it. Hopefully, you'll find what you need.