Is it normal to want an abusive boy/guy friend to beat me before sex?

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Im a 18yr old black female..I have never been in a "real" relationship with a guy but,Im no virgin. At times I get awkward around guys mainly because I want a love/hate relationship. I have never been abused before but is it normal that I want a guy to rough me up(punch,kick,beat or choke) before sex? Its like I want someone to love me who hates me...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    hopefully they stop before your'e dead

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  • dkitty
    11 years ago | pl

    So, you're into BDSM on the rougher side? I don't see anything abnormal about that. Although, it is kind of taboo.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes, but perhaps abuse is the wrong word. Abuse implies it's against your will. What you actually want is someone to do the things you want done, within set boundaries. You're looking for someone dominant, rather than abusive. I've not gone too far down this path myself, but people do it. Hopefully, you'll find what you need.

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  • KaiSmooth
    11 years ago | pl

    Thanks for the advice,its gladly appreciated.

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