Is it normal to want a romantic relationship with my brother?

Please see a therapist!!! If you can't afford it, try to find reputable areas on internet to ask questions like <a href="http://goaskalice.com" rel="nofollow">goaskalice.com</a> or <a href="http://aslalice.com" rel="nofollow">aslalice.com</a> (can't really remember now). It is always the best thing in life to do what is right. The guilt and social opprobrium that comes with doing something so far outside of traditional norms is not worth it. I think that it is because you are lonely. Life lies to us when we are children and tells us that there is a "place" for all of us where we will fit in. That may be true but often it takes more money and resources than a lot of us have to find that "place" where we fit in and are warmly accepted. That need is deep and wide and painful if unfulfilled. I think you do loe your brother because he is the person who "sees" you and loves you... BUT do not go there. Your first order of business is to LEARN HOW TO BE ALONE. Learn how to lessen the pain by doing things that, although they may not leave you feeling as fulfilled as your brother does, lessens that loneliness and underlying feeling of rejection. So it is i think also the feeling of rejection as well as loneliness and that, in my personal opinion, is VERY, VERY DANGEROUS. Loneliness will lead us to cast aside precaution, morals, everything because of that human drive toward companionship and yes- biological reproduction. If there isn't anyone else willing to be around besides your brother, it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective that you would be focused on him in order to perpetuate your genes. But then, where would society end up if we started going down this road?? So, if you can please seek a therapist to 1. HAVE SOMEONE BESIDES YOUR BROTHER WHO IS JUST THERE FOR YOU. and 2. If possible, work through your feelings eventually. Also helpful is to develop a spiritual outlet. When you reach out to a higher power, there is reassurance that sen when no one at all is physically there, there is always "someone" there- if that makes any sense. My mind tells me though that you are someone who will have to come to terms with a fate that deems you be alone/rejected most of your life. It does not really have anything to do with you but with a society that might not be able to appreciate what you have to offer. We don't like to admit how much of a marketplace life really is. Offer it anyway and keep on offering it but do not expect appreciation or anything else. Just offer because we are expected to use our gifts. As society becomes more and more superficial, there will be more and more people like yourself. It sucks but the focus should one coming to terms with your fate as opposed to doing the wrong thing in order to run away from it. I wish you the best of luck and God bless you!!!