Is it normal to want a girlfriend?

Do what ever makes your vagina happy!

Be it a guy checking out girls in a relatioship, or a guy checks out other guys. If your in a relatioship then it's not cool :/ Just cause your checking out girls doesn't make it ok, i'm sure it makes him uncomfortable

Well now you have to decide. Which matters more to you...

satisfying your own urges
or the relationship you're in.

part of having a relationship is compromising, and deciding when to be selfish and when to be committed to your partner

If you want a women dont be with a guy. If you are going to envy after other women in your relationship your boyfreind deserves better. Either be faithful or leave him since he deserve better than his gf eyefucking other women in front of him. You know chicks get pissed off when men do this to them. I think guys should have the same courtesy. Be faithful to your partner.

Oh your kindve missing something in this statement ? who doesnt like you looking at women ? if you have a boyfreind that is understandable who doesnt like you looking for women this makes no sense .

Perhaps you are bisexual?
Whatever, it doesn't sound like your guy is enough for you, for whatever reason.

Hey Shuggy! Yeah you are right no one wants to share their girl haha I usually pull the "i'm not in the mood for guys right now" card when guys are being really agressive and I want to or should i say have to stay friendly because of work or school but don't want anything more. But your girl was into you just being a jerk lol that sucks!

Ok yes Im ina great relationship. Im not leaving him never going to cheat... just wish he would let me bring a chicky in the bedroom??

Make up your mind and grow up.

You are not alone. :) I'm also 21 yrs old and a girl. I really want a girlfriend too!! I'm sure that you don't want to hear this but long-term serious relationships dont really work well at this age. I am on and off with this guy for 7 years... Yeah we hit it off when i was 14 but now at 21 we don't have that connection anymore and he hates the fact that im bisexual, thinks it's wrong etc. It is not wrong so don't worry what your bf says! You really just have to do what makes you happy! I really feel for you and understand your situation. Good Luck!!