I am male and fantasise about my male friend. He's kinda out there sexually anyway and one night when I was at uni, he our female friend and I all started making out after a few drinks.
Nothing happened that night but a few weeks later we did it again and it ended up with my male friend and I in my bed 69ing. I've wanted to do it again since but he only seems to want to do it when he's heavily drunk and that's usually only at parties where there's lots of people. I could invite myself over to his sometime and explain I suppose. He's pretty liberal so he shouldn't freak out even if e doesn't want to pursue it.
It's easy to say "Just go for it" but in reality it can cause awkwardness if they're not up for it. Just be cool about it and talk to your friends. Drop subtle hints over a significant period of time and occasionally talk about it in a joking or off-hand manner and see where it goes. Good luck and just keep in mind the type of person they are and the fact that everyone wants a lil' loving at some point.
Is it normal to want a friends with benefits
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I am male and fantasise about my male friend. He's kinda out there sexually anyway and one night when I was at uni, he our female friend and I all started making out after a few drinks.
Nothing happened that night but a few weeks later we did it again and it ended up with my male friend and I in my bed 69ing. I've wanted to do it again since but he only seems to want to do it when he's heavily drunk and that's usually only at parties where there's lots of people. I could invite myself over to his sometime and explain I suppose. He's pretty liberal so he shouldn't freak out even if e doesn't want to pursue it.
It's easy to say "Just go for it" but in reality it can cause awkwardness if they're not up for it. Just be cool about it and talk to your friends. Drop subtle hints over a significant period of time and occasionally talk about it in a joking or off-hand manner and see where it goes. Good luck and just keep in mind the type of person they are and the fact that everyone wants a lil' loving at some point.