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Sometimes I just want a boyfriend or girlfriend to make out with and have sex with, but not be in a serious relationship.
hell yeah that shits normal, who doesn't want someone to give them their daily pleasure but not hear them bitch constantly. my idea go on a dating website and say aye all im looking for is a fuck buddy and see if it works, nine times outa ten though, that shit doesn't go as planned
yeah its normal one of my best friends loves being friends with benefits with this guy.
Yer its normal and in a few cases can work. However one person normally agrees because they want more than just FWB's so be careful who you pick.
sure it's normal everyone wants that but sometimes people are afraid of being true to the real whore inside of themselves :(
I need a new fuck buddy too, Online dating should be free it's hard to find what your looking for with all the shit that comes with it :)
Yea, it's perfectly normal. But you do have to be careful, because one of you might end up getting emotionally attached or wanting more than just a physical relationship. So, communication is kind of important, there haha.
I'm in a 'friends with benefits' relationship with my best male friend. At first it seemed like a good idea, I mean we both knew one another well and knew what turned us on and we were both really sexually frustrated... but after a few months I'm starting to fall for him and him for me. This would be good but he's leaving.
So yeah, it's normal to want it, but it can very easily go wrong.
it's really only worth it if you and the friend with the benefit are both completely sexually liberated and not afraid to hold anything back. otherwise, if it just plain old regular sex, without some type of strong emotional attachment or experimentation, it's gets really boring after a while.
I am male and fantasise about my male friend. He's kinda out there sexually anyway and one night when I was at uni, he our female friend and I all started making out after a few drinks.
Nothing happened that night but a few weeks later we did it again and it ended up with my male friend and I in my bed 69ing. I've wanted to do it again since but he only seems to want to do it when he's heavily drunk and that's usually only at parties where there's lots of people. I could invite myself over to his sometime and explain I suppose. He's pretty liberal so he shouldn't freak out even if e doesn't want to pursue it.
It's easy to say "Just go for it" but in reality it can cause awkwardness if they're not up for it. Just be cool about it and talk to your friends. Drop subtle hints over a significant period of time and occasionally talk about it in a joking or off-hand manner and see where it goes. Good luck and just keep in mind the type of person they are and the fact that everyone wants a lil' loving at some point.
I can honestly say that i'm in a 'no strings attached' relationship. it is with my best of best guy friends and we have grown stronger in our relationship since we started having sex. it's just so easy. not every one can do it though, thats for sure. especially girls. i love the way our relationship has turned out to be. we don't have to talk every day, or see each other all the time like in a bf/gf relationship, AND there's entirely no pressure about anything. i love him like he loves me. as friends. but we like to have sex. it;s confusing to some people, but the people around us, our closest friends, really admire the kind of relationship we have.