Is it normal to want a faithful sex partner?

you have been sexually involved with someone for two years and your in love with that person. for 7 months out of the two years they started another sexual relationship with someone else that falls in love with them knowing that your partner is in love with you (so she say) and your feelings have helped allowed u to deal with that and all u want is for your love to be faithful...is that normal?

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  • "with them knowing that your partner is in love with you "

    Remember - you CANNOT steal a man or woman unless they're WILLING to be stolen.

    If your partner is in love with YOU then he or she wouldn't be cheating in the first place. It's your PARTNER'S responsibility to remember that they love you - not the other person's.

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    • Do you go on veryliberating . com? Because I swear there is someone on there that says the same thing as you do about the whole someone not being able to be stolen unless they are willing to and gives the whole sha-bam like you do.

      I do agree with you though. And those people who don't get mad at their cheating partner but raise hell on the person they cheated with just crack me up. If anything it's the cheater that should get the brunt of it because they were a damn, dirty cheater.

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      • nope never been there.

        and exactly... too hard for some to accept the fact that their partner CHOSE to cheat. I mean it's not as if they were forced at gunpoint... nope they WILLINGLY went to someone else's bed and put the main relationship second.

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  • yes it's normal. when your in love you want them to be the only one who has sex with you and you want them to be faithful and be with you. you want tehm to want you to be the only one for them.

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  • It's great ! You never know what you're going to catch next !

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  • Well if it's just a casual thing then would have been better to hold off on the emotions with them. Cuz it's to be expected that theyre wanting to have their cake and eat it too. Sorry but if you want it to work out better for you in the longer run, I'd stop seeing that person. You're only supporting their doing by sleeping with them as they are sleeping with the other person

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  • Stop sleeping with them if they're not monogomous with you!

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    • This.

      For the love of God, folks. Masturbation isn't THAT difficult.

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      • I agree, safest sex you can have.

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  • i wuldnt want that nt only coz it might hurt my feelings but luk at all the viruses ans diseases dats like everywer so yes its totally normal to feel that way

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  • No its not normal, I love sharing something I put my dick in with the whole town!

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  • You ARE in an Open Relationship....accept that. If that is NOT the type of relationship you want, then act accordingly. If you are happy great, if not, make a change :-)

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  • Scrrrtt. Pause & rewind... If she loves you like she says she does, THEN WHY IN THE FLYING FUCKS OF HELL would she obtain a new sexual partner while with you? (Puts pinky to mouth like doctor evil).

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  • Sex kind of ruins it. I would suggest getting a pet. I mean a human pet. A human pet will basically do everything and anything for you. They desire to be owned by another person and will remain faithful till the day they die. They have community's and websites for this kind of thing. Most people are only looking for sex. A pet is looking for love and domination and control so they will not abandon the master they are under. Also a human pet will voluntarily become your pet since they want to.

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