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hi i really want a baby but the problem is i dont want a father, i can not afford to get artificialy insiminated and i dont wana adopt cause i want a child of my blood. please some one tell me what i should do i dont want the father of my baby in the future to see him any ideas?
Please just adopt a cat or dog instead. You shouldn't be responsible for kids.
Your life and your babies life isn't gonna be such a nice life when theirs no father in the picture. And you don't sound as responsible as you say you are. You type like you're texting; ur? And a responsible, mature adult wouldn't curse at someone who is merely giving their opinion to a question that you opened up to the public over a public site. Don't be stupid. You wanted to know if its normal, we told you no. Take it or leave it. But don't come on here, ask a ridiculous question like that, and expect that everyone is gonna say, "Yeah sweetheart, its normal. Go right ahead!". And don't get all defensive towards the people who think you'd be making a huge mistake. You're doing this for attention, if anything. And it doesn't say much about yourself.
Alot of people in this world grow up without fathers, and we turn out just fine. If u wanna have a baby without a daddy go for it but if u get preggers and don't tell him an don't give home the opportunity to do the right thing then u are in the wrong!
What's wrong with everybody? That is completely normal! There is nothing that says children won't be just as fulfilled with just one parent in the picture! I am a guy and I want to raise a child on my own. I have been raised to know right from wrong and I am more than capable to raise a child. I don't want anybody's help while educating my child. Children that are raised in a two parent home face probably more problems than a single parent home. If you are able to care for your child and you are financially able to do so then go for it. I will most likely do the same. As long as you love your kid, that's all that matters!
Why do you not want the child's father to be around? Just curious. Doesn't sound normal to me btw...
I thought about this too. But I wouldnt get pregnant by some random guy and leave him. Lol thats crazy. If you really want a baby by blood then save up to get artificially insemenated. I wouldnt take my chances with the other option if I were you.
It's easy to get pregnant without knowing who the father is. Just go to a bar near an army base and get hammered.
Yes I understand how you feel. You want the child to belong to you and you only. And you might not want him to have a father so that you can teach him your own way 100% , take after your surname and give him a name of your choice. I believe in using the cane and the traditional asian way of teaching children and it'll be bad if his father thinks otherwise.
I think I am the only person who actually also would like a child but without a father. The only reason being everyone in my close family is divorced and I have never really seen a happy relationship. BUT I totally agree in that I don't think it's right to bring a child into the world and keep them away from their father unless they are an drunk/rapist/weirdo or whatever.
Its your life, not mine. I personally wouldnt do that, as i urdge you not to. HOWEVER. If I for some unknown reason wanted to go and screw up my life like that, this is what i would do. Go to a club. Get wasted. Dont take birth control. Wake up. And BOOM! You have mostlikely messed up your life. It that doesnt work, repeat.
ITs normal I feel the same way....i want to b a mother some day but I never want to b n e body's wife
you are crazy people if you want this no offence bcuz have you ever thought about what would happen to the child without its father figure, especially if its a male child?