There are always going to be times in a relationship where your "strength" will be tested. Sounds like this could be one of those times. Loving your boyfriend isn't really the issue here, the issue is his "baggage", you know his mom and her baggage that she dragged into your lives. Love isn't always sunshine and roses. Love is unconditional, and if you can't stand by your man right now, when he needs you the most, then you aren't in love anymore. You can love someone without being "in love". That is what you have to ask yourself. Are you in love? Or do you just love him? Or do you just want it to be over and move on. Where are you in this relationship, and what do you want from it? Don't stay just for the sake of staying... But, if you are still in love with this man, do not give up on him and the relationship. Work through this, and grow together instead of apart.
Is it normal to want a break from your relationship?
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There are always going to be times in a relationship where your "strength" will be tested. Sounds like this could be one of those times. Loving your boyfriend isn't really the issue here, the issue is his "baggage", you know his mom and her baggage that she dragged into your lives. Love isn't always sunshine and roses. Love is unconditional, and if you can't stand by your man right now, when he needs you the most, then you aren't in love anymore. You can love someone without being "in love". That is what you have to ask yourself. Are you in love? Or do you just love him? Or do you just want it to be over and move on. Where are you in this relationship, and what do you want from it? Don't stay just for the sake of staying... But, if you are still in love with this man, do not give up on him and the relationship. Work through this, and grow together instead of apart.