Is it normal to want a big brother because of a "brother complex"?

Lately, I've been seriously wishing to have a big brother. I do have an older sister (she's not anything that I'd be interested in, though). But for a long time, I've really wanted an older brother to protect me and hug me when I'm sad or something. Nothing sexual, because I am actually just an asexual person. I just think it'd be great to have a big brother to sort of go on dates with and go to school with (I'm usually very lonely at school, I don't talk to anyone and I always sit by myself). I've also been watching a lot of anime that involve either full on incestuous relationships or just subtly hint at a brother/sister complex to make myself feel better about my own yearning for a relationship like that (Of course, again, I don't desire anything sexual at all). I'm curious if there's anyone else like me.

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Based on 8 votes (5 yes)
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  • hcysplihp

    I don't know if it's normal exactly, but it definitely hits close to home for me. <3

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  • Shackleford96

    Yeah, ignoring the anime references, I think that's a normal thing to want. I've often felt like It would've been nice to have a younger sister growing up. I didn't get to spend a ton of time with my older sister, too much of an age gap I guess. My older brother was always kind of a douche, so not much consolidation there either. It's normal to think that you would want a sibling like that, and that you could be friends too, but I think it's a bit unrealistic. Most sibling relationships aren't anything like what you imagine they should be.

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    • Shackleford96

      *consolation

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's kinda messed up, and pathetic.

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