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ok this is a little weird and i know everyone has their types but mine is someone i can take care of if you know what i mean, like i wanna protect them anyway is there anyone else like this and also is there a word for it?
Not normal or healthy. Work on yourself before trying to take care of someone else. When we make taking care of other people our main priority, it is often because we are trying to "stall" or "put off" furthering our own development (after all, it is easier to find and "fix" the inadequacies of someone else than it is to do the same for ourselves). Basically, you are taking the lazy way out while still being able to preserve a false sense of personal dignity.
I don't know why your comment got a 0 :-( I agree with what you said, completely! We need to work on ourselves before we can even begin to worry about taking care of someone else. In today's society, we're told we have to take care of others and think of others before ourselves, but then we end up completely ignoring ourselves, and ignoring our own problems.