Is it normal to wanna meet someone with a fetish?

Well I have a match fetish yes I am a male and I like having matches struck or lit near and under my cock not so close that it burns me but just close enough that I can feel the warmth of the heat from the matches on my wiener. I love the sulfur smell from the matches and on the box and the striking sound makes me feel like I am being controlled. I like to have some one do this to me. I like to use kitchen wood matches best but book matches work too as long as they are lit hard and they pop on the book. It makes me very hard and it tickles a lot and it makes me cum very hard. I masturbate this way alone as well but have found it to be a nice way to have a sexual experience with some one else that I can trust. Its a really fun unique different fetish. No I am not a pyro.If you are a girl and you want to find a new way to get your guy hard this will get him instantly hard. try it !!! It works good If you get him hard he will cum hard too if he is in you and you keep striking them near his nose so he can smell the sulfur he will have a huge orgasm very hard I speak from experience