My parents got divorced when I was seven. My dad checked out and I was a big daddys girl so I got some deep emotional neglect from it. My mom hated me cuz I reminded her of him. I dreamed I would find a good dad for a husband one day. All I wanted to be was a mommy and a wife in a strong family. However this took a great toll on me too because I would fight sooooo hard even for bad relationships to work when it failed I grew incredibly depressed because once again I had failed. And my life dream was gone. So was my purpose and drive in life. Then I wised up and analyzed. Why did we fail. I picked all the bad things I did and they did apart. Figured out what I want, what I can compromise on and what I absolutely cannot handle. I had gotten to where I could sit down at a dinner & tell he was it or wasn't because of who I am or he is. I found him one day. We dated a yr and I realized I was off by a bit. Added to my list willing to forgive everything and no jealousy. I never told them guys what I was looking for other than the general connection answer because if they are digging you they'd like to think they can be what you seek and will mostly say yes which later you see is not the case. I asked questions about life experiences on the subject and how they handled them. Some women are like he needs to be blond blue 6' make this much feel this way about kids etc. While something are very important (do they have goals like yours or child rearing ideals like yours) 6' not 5'8 or blue eyed not brown eyed are the reason why some people miss their true night in shining armour. Don't give up I didn't find him till I was 30. And he is amazing and all those dreams I had came true. He was done with love but he said he just knew I was right. He didn't even feel that way about his ex. He passed everything plus more! I'm a stay at home mommy now. I have one girl, expecting a boy in 7 weeks, and two awesome stepboys who proposed to me when they met me. Will you marry my dad!? When I mess up he's patient with me. He loves me and fights for us. I always loved military and he's a master sgt. Super gorgeous and I had originally thought wow he's more than I dreamed he can't be for me. I still check my finger to make sure. I had told my ex next time I'm getting married. I was so close. Each one of my relationships were considerably better than the last. A sign you've got it. He's my full knight in shining armour!
Is it normal to wait for your dream guy?
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My parents got divorced when I was seven. My dad checked out and I was a big daddys girl so I got some deep emotional neglect from it. My mom hated me cuz I reminded her of him. I dreamed I would find a good dad for a husband one day. All I wanted to be was a mommy and a wife in a strong family. However this took a great toll on me too because I would fight sooooo hard even for bad relationships to work when it failed I grew incredibly depressed because once again I had failed. And my life dream was gone. So was my purpose and drive in life. Then I wised up and analyzed. Why did we fail. I picked all the bad things I did and they did apart. Figured out what I want, what I can compromise on and what I absolutely cannot handle. I had gotten to where I could sit down at a dinner & tell he was it or wasn't because of who I am or he is. I found him one day. We dated a yr and I realized I was off by a bit. Added to my list willing to forgive everything and no jealousy. I never told them guys what I was looking for other than the general connection answer because if they are digging you they'd like to think they can be what you seek and will mostly say yes which later you see is not the case. I asked questions about life experiences on the subject and how they handled them. Some women are like he needs to be blond blue 6' make this much feel this way about kids etc. While something are very important (do they have goals like yours or child rearing ideals like yours) 6' not 5'8 or blue eyed not brown eyed are the reason why some people miss their true night in shining armour. Don't give up I didn't find him till I was 30. And he is amazing and all those dreams I had came true. He was done with love but he said he just knew I was right. He didn't even feel that way about his ex. He passed everything plus more! I'm a stay at home mommy now. I have one girl, expecting a boy in 7 weeks, and two awesome stepboys who proposed to me when they met me. Will you marry my dad!? When I mess up he's patient with me. He loves me and fights for us. I always loved military and he's a master sgt. Super gorgeous and I had originally thought wow he's more than I dreamed he can't be for me. I still check my finger to make sure. I had told my ex next time I'm getting married. I was so close. Each one of my relationships were considerably better than the last. A sign you've got it. He's my full knight in shining armour!