It's normal to think this way, especially as girls. We were raised on fantasy stories and romance movies that almost always have happy endings.
I'm not saying that the perfect guy isn't out there for you. I'm not saying this at all. I believe in love. Maybe I'm just a sucker for it all, too.
I know someone I feel a deep connection to. Sometimes I feel as though there is a string binding me to this person. Obviously that isn't true. In an oddly conflicting twist, I don't believe in destiny.
I can't find reasons why I believe in this love so strongly. I feel a deep longing to be with him. I want to hear his heart beat(I don't mean that in a creepy way. I mean I want that peaceful, complete, closeness.) I ache for it, have dreams about such utter wholeness. He resembles everything I want in a man.
I see the signs that he likes me the same. That we will have the opportunity to give it a try soon. Right now we are at flirting and making eyes/long, lingering eye contact. Special smiles and warm words. I get so fuzzy inside. It tickles me. I have to step outside my comfort zone and into his. I know he'll let me, I'm just afraid of putting myself out there.
If you seek it, you will find it. You can't wait for it to find you. If you think you see it, you have to go for it, or you may lose it completely. Life doesn't always give you a second chance and everyone is moving through time. Just keep your eyes peeled and be ready for it when it comes and don't settle if you don't think someone is right for you. If it feels wrong, it probably is. But don't look for reasons not to like someone, because you want or like someone else. You could equally be throwing out the person who is right for you. Love is confusing. You have to feel it out. :)
Is it normal to wait for your dream guy?
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It's normal to think this way, especially as girls. We were raised on fantasy stories and romance movies that almost always have happy endings.
I'm not saying that the perfect guy isn't out there for you. I'm not saying this at all. I believe in love. Maybe I'm just a sucker for it all, too.
I know someone I feel a deep connection to. Sometimes I feel as though there is a string binding me to this person. Obviously that isn't true. In an oddly conflicting twist, I don't believe in destiny.
I can't find reasons why I believe in this love so strongly. I feel a deep longing to be with him. I want to hear his heart beat(I don't mean that in a creepy way. I mean I want that peaceful, complete, closeness.) I ache for it, have dreams about such utter wholeness. He resembles everything I want in a man.
I see the signs that he likes me the same. That we will have the opportunity to give it a try soon. Right now we are at flirting and making eyes/long, lingering eye contact. Special smiles and warm words. I get so fuzzy inside. It tickles me. I have to step outside my comfort zone and into his. I know he'll let me, I'm just afraid of putting myself out there.
If you seek it, you will find it. You can't wait for it to find you. If you think you see it, you have to go for it, or you may lose it completely. Life doesn't always give you a second chance and everyone is moving through time. Just keep your eyes peeled and be ready for it when it comes and don't settle if you don't think someone is right for you. If it feels wrong, it probably is. But don't look for reasons not to like someone, because you want or like someone else. You could equally be throwing out the person who is right for you. Love is confusing. You have to feel it out. :)