Up until I read how he found the balls to move in with you and put your relationship first, my first inclination was to tell you run like the wind from this mama's boy....the majority of these types are brainwashed by their mothers (from hell) and never change....but damn you found yourself one that seems to have found his cojones and got his priorities straight and put his life first....girl you are luckier than hell...ignoring her is an effective tactic....I applaud you both for limiting communication...his mother needs to be re-trained to treat him with respecxt and not as her slave (or her boyfriend or her husband) and stop asking him to rescue her (she is responsible for her own damn life)...if she doesn't respond to re-training, he might need to take the next step and limit his communication with her to major holidays....seriously....the next step would be to cease all communication...it can be done...family or non-family, toxic people must be cut off completely...some people change, but most don't, and the ones that don't change will never get it, and need to be cut off....Wishing you all the best!
Is it normal to use your son?
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Up until I read how he found the balls to move in with you and put your relationship first, my first inclination was to tell you run like the wind from this mama's boy....the majority of these types are brainwashed by their mothers (from hell) and never change....but damn you found yourself one that seems to have found his cojones and got his priorities straight and put his life first....girl you are luckier than hell...ignoring her is an effective tactic....I applaud you both for limiting communication...his mother needs to be re-trained to treat him with respecxt and not as her slave (or her boyfriend or her husband) and stop asking him to rescue her (she is responsible for her own damn life)...if she doesn't respond to re-training, he might need to take the next step and limit his communication with her to major holidays....seriously....the next step would be to cease all communication...it can be done...family or non-family, toxic people must be cut off completely...some people change, but most don't, and the ones that don't change will never get it, and need to be cut off....Wishing you all the best!